Hi students, don't forget we have wonderful day in the last meeting of this class this semester. Be ready with your presentation. Please send your presentation's file (in power pint) to my email: agung.praptapa@gmail.com.
You should write a short paper also right? please post here as comments.
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The audience
Some basic questions to ask about an audience are:
Who will I be speaking to?
What do they know about my topic already?
What will they want to know about my topic?
What do I want them to know by the end of my talk?
Planning your presentation
In an effective presentation, the content and structure are adjusted to the medium of speech. When listening, we cannot go back over a difficult point to understand it or easily absorb long arguments. A presentation can easily be ruined if the content is too difficult for the audience to follow or if the structure is too complicated.
As a general rule, expect to cover much less content than you would in a written report. Make difficult points easier to understand by preparing the listener for them, using plenty of examples and going back over them later. Leave time for questions within the presentation.
Give your presentation a simple and logical structure. Include an introduction in which you outline the points you intend to cover and a conclusion in which you go over the main points of your talk.
Delivering your presentation
People vary in their ability to speak confidently in public, but everyone gets nervous and everyone can learn how to improve their presentation skills by applying a few simple techniques.
The main points to pay attention to in delivery are the quality of your voice, your rapport with the audience, use of notes and use of visual aids.
Voice quality involves attention to volume, speed and fluency, clarity and pronunciation. The quality of your voice in a presentation will improve dramatically if you are able to practice beforehand in a room similar to the one you will be presenting in.
Rapport with the audience involves attention to eye contact, sensitivity to how the audience is responding to your talk and what you look like from the point of view of the audience. These can be improved by practicing in front of one or two friends or video-taping your rehearsal.
Effective use of notes
Good speakers vary a great deal in their use of notes. Some do not use notes at all and some write out their talk in great detail. If you are not an experienced speaker it is not a good idea to speak without notes because you will soon lose your thread. You should also avoid reading a prepared text aloud or memorizing your speech as this will be boring.
The best solution may be to use notes with headings and points to be covered. You may also want to write down key sentences. Notes can be on paper or cards. Some speakers use overhead transparencies as notes. The trick in using notes is to avoid shifting your attention from the audience for too long. Your notes should always be written large enough for you to see without moving your head too much.
Visual aids
Visual aids help to make a presentation more lively. They can also help the audience to follow your presentation and help you to present information that would be difficult to follow through speech alone.
The two most common forms of visual aid are overhead transparencies (OHTs) and computer slide shows (e.g. PowerPoint). Objects that can be displayed or passed round the audience can also be very effective and often help to relax the audience. Some speakers give printed handouts to the audience to follow as they speak. Others prefer to give their handouts at the end of the talk, because they can distract the audience from the presentation.
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BUSINESS COMMUNICATION ASSIGNMENT
The Art of Speaking
Basics of Succes Conversation
Talking is like playing golf, driving car or manage a shop. If you often talking, you will be expert and happy to do that. However, you must know the basics before.
Honest.
With this principle, you won’t be wrong in talking. Before you speak elaborately, it will be better if you tell hearer/s about your condition when you try to start talking. For example, “I haven’t speak in front of the class, I’m so nervous here...”.By saying that words, so everybody understand my condition and I won’t be nervous anymore.
Right Attitude.
Be Confidence. You shouldn’t imitate other person’s talking style. It will look weird if you try to be other person. Just be yourself.
Attention and Open
Beside you have a willingness to talk, you need two requirements to be a good speaker. That are deep attention and open yourself to them.
You won’t be successful in talking if they consider that you are not interested with what are they talking about or you do not respect them.
Talk to Strange Person
Don’t be shy
Most of us usually feel shy or nervous to talk with others people that we have never met before. Moreover, if we speak in front of public in the first time. All of us are human so we no need to feel nervous even you talking to professor with four degrees or astronaut who have fly 18,000 mils to the space or even talk to President.
Remember : Person/s that you invited to talk are more comfortable with conversation if they know that you are comfortable too.
To help you solve the shyness, just remember that people that you invited to talk are same shy with you. It will increased your ability to remove the shyness.
Start to talk
To start the conversation with people, you can ask something about them like their condition,their sons, their opinion about something and etc. People are happy if they tell about themself.
Beside that, you should avoid yes/no question. It is an enemy of good conversation. You can ask them about more substantive things which need eloborate answer, so it will created better conversation.
Body Language
Body language is as important as speaking language. Body language is natural part of conversation. If it happen naturally, body language will form effective communication and if your body language is not natural, you will seem as you are telling a lie even actually you aren’t. Just calmdown and carefully.
Characteristics of Good Speaker
1.They are enthusiastic, show big interest to whatever you do in your life and what you say in your chance to say.
2.They have high curiousity, they ask “why”. They want to know more about what have you said.
3.They are empathy, they try to put themself in your position to understand what you said.
4.They have humour taste, they are not objection to jeer themself. Really best convesionalist often tell about their silly experience.
5.They have a speaking style.
Source : Book of Seni Berbicara
Written by Larry King
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BUSINESS COMMUNICATION ASSIGNMENT
BUSINESS TIPS
5 Tips to Make Customers Come to You :
1. Determine who your customers are, and what their wants or needs are. Know how your product or service satisfies their wants or needs.
2. Instill and practice the concept of continuous quality improvement and quality customer service as a way of life in your business.
3. Make sure you select the proper medium to carry out your message, and choose the proper location within that medium.
4. Direct your message to where your prospects are listening, viewing or reading.
5. Create a forum or place of business that is unique is some way. Make customers feel different while they are doing business with you.
5 Tips for Great Telephone Customer Service:
1. Never let the telephone ring more than twice before answering. The last thing a customer wants to do is wait, no matter how routine the call may be. Greet your caller in a warm, professional manner.
2. Document everything that happens with the customer’s call, including time and date; a description of the question, problem or request; actions taken; and any follow-up contact. Keep the information on file, particularly for your regular customers.
3. If you’re short of time and the service call is not urgent, politely explain the situation to the customer and get his/her contact information, including a convenient time when you can call back and discuss the issue at length.
4. If you need to use automated answering system, your customer service line should be one of the first options. Limit any subsequent menus for routing calls by specifying to as few selection options as possible.
5. Always follow up with customers to make sure the issue was addressed to his/her satisfaction. You may receive some valuable suggestions for improving your service or—even better—a happy customer who will refer your business to others.
Thio Rizki Fauzi Yudhistira
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How to Improve Communication Skills
1. Get into unfamiliar circumstances.
The best mode of quick learning is the mode of Unfamiliarity. When you are in a familiar and comfortable situation, your brain tends to be lax and less attentive. One of the best way to improve your skills to find people who are successful in that particular area and see how to improve communication just like them.
Decide which behavior you would like to integrate and then choose one of the exercises to improve communication skills.
2. Overcome hesitation by asking for "Ungettable" things at shops
If you are very sensitive or just a painful perfectionist, This exercise will set you free. Because of the huge ego, I had a "need to be right all the time" syndrome. All you have to do is approach random people and ask for an opinion or visit shops and ask for things they wont have.
For Example You go to Food Shop: The waiter would be confused when I asked "Can I get a haircut?"
He said "Sorry we don't do that here".
I said "ok. Thank you" and ran away. It was fun.
It does wonders in improving your communication skills.
3. Learn a New Language.
Language is one of the greatest gifts to humans and probably all our progress is due to the fact we can speak and understand each other.The unfortunate side effect is that people are getting into more and more linguistically created barriers. It is not as complicated as it sounds.
I suggest you learn new language.
It will refresh your existing language connections in the brain and improve communication skills in many ways.
4. The Rewrite Rewire Effect
Language is just like your Face. It Expresses your emotion. We all get used to seeing different expressions on face but, forget to do so with our language. This exercise will go a long way in developing flexibility of language and develop your communication.
Take a 500 word article and rewrite it to express different emotions. the whole article should reflect only one emotion. The more you can express with lesser words, the better. The idea is to make you juggle your language on demand. In turn this will flex up your brain and fire your imagination.
5. The Left and Right Co-ordination Exercise
Do the left and right coordination exercise to activate your creative abilities by making use of your non dominant hand.
Principle: The Creative functions are controlled by Right Half of your Brain. Right Brain also controls the left part of your Body. When you want to make use of the best of both worlds and when you want to improve communication skills, keep them synchronized.
Ninety percent of population is Right Handed and do not use their Left hand as much. Use your Left hand to do some of the basic things like Brushing your teeth and Eating. Engage your left hand in skillful work. This will start to activate your Right Brain functions.
As you become comfortable with the simple activities, take it to the next level by writing with Left hand. These activities will sufficiently increase the dormant power of your Right Brain. If you are left handed, do the same with right hand. The exercises are given in the order of difficulty. Feel free to tear it apart and do it any way you want. There are no rules for creativity.
The aim of these activities is to improve communication skills by improving your right-left brain synchronization.
Bottom line: Do things differently. it will improve your communication skills
1. Brush your teeth with Left Hand
2. Use only Left hand to Eat Food, but make sure you wash it thoroughly before you eat
3. Draw with your Left hand.
4. Start mirror writing with right hand
5. Learn to write with left hand
6. Learn to write with left hand and right hand simultaneously
There is a lot more you can do. Let your creativity run and you will come up with some new ideas to take your communication to a whole new level!. To improve communication skills constantly is like sharpening your sword.
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International Accounting
The Importance of Nonverbal Communication
Speaking is one of the most important aspect to communicate with other people. Through speaking, we can share our intention, idea, opinion, or just get along with other. Not only that, we can also judge someone through the way they are speaks. But it is not as simple as we think, because sometimes we find dificulties to understand their words. It can lead us to missunderstanding if we are not carreful. The worst is, we can end up fighting each other just because we makes mistekes in speaking. It show us, speaking as a verbal communication skill need some times to experienced eventhough it sounds easy to do. In the other hand, there is still another type of communication, that is nonverbal communication. Although the verbal communication skill is difficult to experienced, nonverbal itself can be more difficult to master because we dont use any written nor spoken messages on it. But still, we can learn many things about nonverbal communication.
Communicating with only verbal messages is not enough because we need nonverbal message also. Nonverbal message has great roles in communicating. It almost imposible if we communicate without the support of nonverbal messages. Believe it or not, nonverbal messages can even be more important than verbal messages because it has several function. First, support the details of verbal messages. In some case, we need the help of nonverbal messages in order to make verbal messages clearer, such as say good with raise the thumb up. Second, replace the verbal messages. In certain situation we are forced to use only nonverbal, such as nodding our head to say yes in the middle of the meeting. Third, we can improve our communication. If we are good in using nonverbal messages, it can improve our communicating skill. With the support of good nonverbal languages, we can get more confidences in communicating. So in the end, we can communicate better than before. Fourth, reflects our personality. Nonverbal can speak louder than the verbal languages. People can easily judge ourselves through our body language, from facial expression to our gesture. Not only that, they can also judge us by looks to our appearance such as clothes and our documents. The last is it can lead us to the simpler form of communication. When we use nonverbal messages, we communicate without spoken nor written languages. Which means we communicate simpler and faster. For example, we tend to nodding our head rather than say “thats good idea”.
ReplyDeleteNonverbal communication has many forms. In this case, I decide to divide it into two forms. First is body languages, and second is appearance. Body languages are how our body gives messages without any words. For example, eye contact, posture, gesture, and facial expression. Eye contact is how we look the eyes of our speaking partner when we are communicating. Eye contact show us whether someone pay atttention, respect, or focus on the conversation. A good communicator will also have a good posture whenever they communicate with other. We should pay attention to our posture when we stand, walk, and sit. Gesture is the supporter in communicating. Just like I said before, through gesture we can improve and modify our verbal messages. But, we should use certain gesture in a right place. By seeing the facial expression people can know whether we are interested in the conversation or not. It can happen because our face can express our feeling faster than our words. So, we should make sure to keep our face in a positive expression.
The last is appearance. Many communicator failed to communicate because they are ignoring their appearance. Our appearance is very important because people will judge us by seeing our appearance at the first time. So if we having bad appearance, then we might lose our chance to be a good communicator. So from the very beginning, we must wear neat outfit in order to create a positive opinion about us before we start to speak. Not only that, our surrounding environment must also in a good shape, such as our vehicle, office, etc. We should pay attention also in all of our documents.
We can conclude that nonverbal communication is as important as verbal communication. Even, in certain situation it can be more important than the verbal communication. So, from now on we must train our nonverbal communication skill so we can be a good communicator.
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HOW TO BE A GOOD COMMUNICATOR
A Good Communicator is pay good attention and giving response to what the opposite’s side says. Kinds of communication are verbal communication and non verbal communication. Verbal communication is when we communicate our message verbally to whoever is receiving the message. Non-verbal communication is usually understood as the process of communication through sending and receiving wordless messages. Such messages can be communicate through gesture, body language/posture, facial expression and eye contact, object communication such as clothing, hair styles or even architecture, symbols and info graphics, prosodic features of speech such as intonation and stress and other paralinguistic features of speech such as voice quality, emotion, and speaking style.
Steps to be a good communicator are
1. Confidence
2. Competence in subject material
3. Communicative
4. Good looking
5. Good attitude
In short is to be a good communicator, you must have good skill, attitude, and capable to send what is your idea, your suggestions to another people.
How can I Become a Good Communicator
ReplyDeleteTo help you develop good communications skills, I've prepared a list of my eight steps tips. Follow these basic techniques and you'll be assured of satisfying your clients' needs.
Eight Steps to Better Communications :
1. Watch your word count. Generally speaking, the more words you use, the better the chance that you’ll confuse things. If you talk for half an hour, people might remember that you gave a speech, but if you speak for only five minutes, they’ll remember what you said. This is the secret to the Gettysburg address: make your points brief, simple and to the point, and put it in language the audience will relate to.
2. Write less, say more. As a corollary to #1 above, write with clarity and economy. As a rule, keep all memos to one page or less. If you feel that you need more space to wax eloquent, write a one-page summary and include the rest as an appendix. Chances are nobody will read past the first page anyway, so write accordingly.
3. Let your drawings and models do the talking. It’s true that a picture is worth a thousand words; use this to your advantage. Instead of explaining all the details, say “as you can see on the model (or in the plan)…” Your drawings and models will say far more in a glance than you can in an hour, and much more eloquently.
4. “Present in reverse.” Before starting any presentation, decide what you want the outcome to be, then design your talk backwards from that. Take as little time as necessary to get to your point. As you speak, trade places with the audience in your head—be sensitive to how they are responding. Are you getting good eye contact? Are they paying attention or are they listless? Do they understand what you are saying? Are they convinced? How do you know?
5. Avoid inconsistency and exaggeration. Don’t say one thing if the drawings or models say something else. Speak the facts plainly and let the audience draw its own conclusions; they’ll appreciate your confidence in their judgment. And while it’s OK to be dramatic to make a point, if you blow things out of proportion, nobody will believe the next sentence out of your mouth.
6. Watch the visuals. Your posture, your clothing, and your presentation material do make a difference. An eloquent speech can easily be derailed by visual distractions. Remember that presentation is a performance art—you are literally doing theater. Control what your audience sees as much as what it hears. Graphics are important. Pay attention to the design of your letterhead, brochures, drawing layouts, proposal formats, etc. Make sure they’re attractive and easy to read. Like the clothes you wear, they tell a story about you whether you like it or not.
7. Go for closure. The two main purposes of a presentation are to share information or make decisions. You’ll never arrive at a conclusion unless the audience says “yes.” Make this easy on them by having all the relevant and required information at hand— “decision-ready information” —then don’t be afraid to ask for an answer. If the client can’t commit, find out why. Remember that the largest part of being a good communicator is being a good listener.
8. Know when to stop. Many a cake has been ruined by being left in the oven too long. If you plan to speak for five minutes, don’t take seven. Remember Thomas O’Neill’s famous dictum that “when you’ve got the votes, count the roll.” Your audience will appreciate your brevity and will reward you with their confidence (and their votes). “Over-communicating” can be just as dangerous as “under-communicating.”
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Though verbal skills are important, non-verbal cues are just as important in determining your success. If we see these cues are words then they form the most important language of all. This language does have regional dialects, yet knows no national boundaries, spanning the worlds continents it is known by everyone whether they are consciously aware of it or not. I’m sure you have guessed what this magical tool of communication is by now. This is simply, not what you say but how your physical body acts.
Here is a list of simple, but highly effective habits you should acquire, and use whenever you are introduced to someone new.
Make eye contact. Use the ‘social gaze’, focus on the areas created by an imaginary triangle formed by a persons eyes and nose. Don’t stare at their forehead, feet or boobs.
Smile. No Grinning or Pouting. Just smiling.
Initiate the handshake. How you shake hands is very important when you meet someone. For a start it establishes the power balance of the relationship, subconsciously adding to the judgement the other person makes of you. Don’t put froward a limp hand or cut off their blood supply. Hold your hand out straight, not tilted sideways at an angle. Grip firmly and pump once or twice. Adjust their tilt during the handshake so both your and their hands are held horizontal. You don’t want to come off as being dominant or submissive (which is indicated by the tilt of the hand) but equal. The hand with the palm facing down is the more dominant whereas if the palm is tilting upwards, it is more of a submissive gesture.
Touch their elbow gently, for three seconds, whilst shaking their hand. No more than 3 seconds though. Maintaining eye contact and smiling throughout. As you do this repeat their name aloud ‘nice to meet you Jessica’. This will make the person feel important and valued. You will remember their name as you have time to identify their face with the name, making that all important link in your mind. Touching directly on the elbow is important, as touching below or above the elbow will not yield the same positive results, but instead be taken as an invasion of privacy, whereas the elbow is considered a more public place.
If these steps are implemented properly, then your impact on someone you meet for the first time will be great. You will instantly stand out from the crowd, and as a result people will be eager to continue their interaction with you. Which is essential in developing your relationship with that person.
Your cool, calm and confident attitude will make the other person feel at ease and comfortable in your presence. This is important, as their state of mind at the time of meeting you and how you made them feel will be associated with you. This links in with how they remember you afterwards.
Here is the four-step process summarised for you to internalise. It won’t take long before it all comes automatically.
• Eye Contact
• Smile
• Initiate Greeting
• Touch/Name Repeat.
Learning to concisely control your body movements not only means your more focused on creating a positive overall impression, but by learning to adopt a confident posture you will be received as that which you set out to project. A confident person. Simultaneously your internal feelings of confidence will be boosted for two reasons. Primarily as that pre-existing link that your body has between feeling confident and projecting it will be reaffirmed. Both the feeling and projection of confidence rebound off of each other. That’s to say forcefully adopting positive body language, makes you more confident, illustrating how mental processes of the mind are interconnected with the movements of the physical body. Secondly your confidence will be boosted as you notice people react to your presence differently. You are not a stuffed duck now but a social butterfly! Fly. Live.
Pratiwi Tri Utami
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COMMUNICATION VARIOUS
Communication is process of transferring information from one source to another. communication is commonly difined as "the imparting or interchange or thoughts, opinion, of information by speech, writing or signs". communication can be perceived as a two-way process in which there is an exchangeand a progression of thoughts, feelings or idea towards a mutually accepted (clarivication needed) gool or direction.
communication elements:
1.communicator = who (communicator,source,sender)
2.massage = says what (massage)
3.media = in which channel ( media, channel)
4.communicant = to whom (communicant, communicate,receiver,recepient)
5.effect = (effect ,impact,influence)
types of communication
there are three major parts in human face to face communication which are body language,voice tonality, and words. according to the research:
a. 55% of impact is determined by body language-postures, gestures, and eye contact.
b. 38% by the tone of voice, and
c. 7% by the content or the word used in the communication process.
types of communication
- Dialogue or verval communication
a dialogue is a reciprocal conversation between two or more entities.
- nonverbal communication
nonverbal communication is the process of communicating through sending and receiving wordless messages.
- visual communication
visual communication as the name suggests is communication through visual aid.
- others of types communication
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Culture of Indonesia
Indonesian culture has been shaped by long interaction between original indigenous customs and multiple foreign influences. Indonesia is central along ancient trading routes between the Far East and the Middle East, resulting in many cultural practices being strongly influenced by a multitude of religions, including Hinduism, Buddhism, Confucianism and Islam, all strong in the major trading cities. The result is a complex cultural mixture very different from the original indigenous cultures.
Traditional performing arts
• Music
Indonesia is home to hundreds of forms of music, with those from the islands of Java, Sumatra and Bali being frequently recorded. The traditional music of central and East Java and Bali is the gamelan.
• Dance
While the court dances are promoted and even performed internationally, the popular forms of dance art and drama must largely be discovered locally.
• Drama and theatre
Randai is a folk theatre tradition of the Minangkabau people of West Sumatra, usually performed for traditional ceremonies and festivals. It incorporates music, singing, dance, drama and the silat martial art, with performances often based on semi-historical Minangkabau legends and storys.
Traditional visual arts
• Painting
Indonesia is not generally known for paintings, aside from the intricate and expressive Balinese paintings, which often express natural scenes and themes from the traditional dances.
Architecture
For centuries, the most dominant influences on Indonesian architecture were Indian, although European influences have been particularly strong since the nineteenth century and modern architecture in Indonesia is international in scope.
Recreation And Sports
Many traditional games are still preserved and popular in Indonesia, although western culture has influenced some parts of them. Among three hundred officially recognized Indonesian cultures, there are many kinds of traditional games: cockfighting in Bali, annual bull races in Madura, and stone jumping in Nias.
Religion and philosophy
Islam is Indonesia's main religion, with almost 88% of Indonesians declared Muslim according to the 2000 census[8], making Indonesia the most populous Muslim-majority nation in the world. The remaining population is 9% Christian (of which roughly two-thirds are Protestant with the remainder mainly Catholic, and a large minority Charismatic), 2% Hindu and 1% Buddhist.
The Pancasila, the statement of two principles which encapsulate the ideology of the Indonesian state, affirms that "The state shall be based on the belief in the one and only God".
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READING AND COMMUNICATING WITH HUMAN BODY
Body Language
The three main components of body language are your eyes, face, and
body.
Nothing says “I’m listening” quite like an expectant look. The eyes are called the windows to the soul, and they are able to express thoughts and emotions more eloquently in their silence and intensity than a long string of words. So make certain that what you are communicating with your eyes is of a positive nature. Maintaining eye contact with the other person is a sign of respect. You do not want to convey boredom, impatience, or even irritation by rolling your eyes, letting them droop, or allowing them to roam. Don’t keep your eyes preoccupied by reading the paper or checking your text messages while someone is addressing you directly. If, indeed, you are already doing such activities when you are approached, have the courtesy to stop and look up from whatever it is you are doing and give the other person your full attention. You may not realize it, but when you do so and accord them the proper and utmost respect, you in turn gain theirs.
Besides your eyes and mouth, the rest of your face is also powerful in transmitting nonverbal communication. So smile—always. And it has to be a genuine smile, one that reaches your eyes. You are so much more likely to be approached when you are smiling this way as it is a very warm and convivial sight to behold. It signals that you are willing to engage in social interaction.
On the other hand, when you do not smile, it makes you seem aloof or rather unapproachable, and people will have second thoughts before they do decide to strike up a conversation with you. You might also have a tendency to frown, even without meaning to, so it is very important that you be conscious of your own facial expressions at all times in order to adjust yourself accordingly.
Basically, it all boils down to being honest. Say what you mean and mean what you say, and your body language will only reinforce this. Even though it’s well and good to become more aware of your own body language and to try to correct certain things, still, it’s virtually impossible to control every single movement and muscle twitch. And even if you managed to do that, it would nonetheless look terribly fake. The solution? Be natural. Body language is supposed to complement your words, not be treated as a separate entity altogether. When you’re too conscious about whether or not you’re smiling properly, or you’re too worried that your limbs have suddenly taken on a life of their own and simply refuse to do your bidding, you’ll be far too preoccupied to actually communicate effectively. The best way to overcome this predicament is for you to state your meaning clearly and straightforwardly, emphasizing your point with the right and most natural and positive of gestures directed toward the other person so that they don’t misread your body language. If you are merely trying to keep warm when you cross your arms, say so immediately to avoid setting yourself up for misinterpretation.
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GOOD COMMUNICATION
TO KEY GOING SUCCESFULL
UNDERSTANDING COMMUNICATIONS
• Communications is an process, Communications is with refer to event or action that happened alternately.
• Communications is intended effort and have target (conducted in one's sober senses).
CHARACTERISTICS OF COMMUNICATION
• Communications to prosecute the existence of cooperation and participation from all perpetrators in concerned.
• Communications have the character of symbolicly.
• Communications have the character of transaksional.
• Communications time penetrate the time factor and intention room.
FUNCTION OF COMMUNICATIONS
1. Can submit feeling
2. Not detached or insulation of environment
3. Can teach or advise something
4. Can know or study from event in environment
5. Can recognize self alone
6. Can obtainentertainment amusement or amuse others
7. Can lessen or eliminate feeling of strained
8. Can fill leeway
9. Can add knowledge and change attitude and also behavior of habit
10. Can persuade or force others so thathaving a notion to behave or have my behavior to as expected.
HOW TO GOOD COMMUNICATIONS?
GOOD COMMUNICATIONS is not merely way communicate with humanity, but also the way of communicating with ownself. good Humanity communicating with will yield harmonious relationship. Where as communications with ownself will determine the quality of our life.
THE FEATURE TO PEOPLE SUCCESS
• Aflame enthusiasm
• Trust which isn't it
• Strategy which was exact
• Values instructing
• Energy which abundance
• Harmonious relationship
• Good communications
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BUSCOM
How to Be Respected
If anyone wants to be respected by others, wealth, clothing or physical attractiveness are not requirements. The way others perceive us isn't necessarily based on our level of education, what schools we may have attended or with whom we are acquainted. Respect is accorded to those who live respectable lives--that is, people that conduct themselves with integrity and treat others, in turn, with high regard. If we set the example by respecting ourselves - appreciating our own good qualities and using them to highlight the positive in other people's lives, then our example will be followed and that same regard will likely be shown to us in return. The most important thing to remember is that respect is earned; we must act respectably in order to receive the benefits.
Steps
1. Present yourself well. Have a bath or shower once a day, be well groomed and dressed neatly. Clothing doesn’t need to be expensive but it should be laundered and in good repair. Take care of your health and your teeth. Your smile will show to others that you enjoy your own company, and theirs too.
2. Keep your language clean and respectable. Say positive things about others whenever possible, but be sincere - people can recognize the difference between true interest and forced flattery.
3. Try not to be negative. It is easy to point out the downside of a situation, but if we make the effort to overcome our obstacles we can lead happier lives and be an encouragement to others. Find ways to assist those who need help and your own troubles will seem less overwhelming, and you feel better for doing it!
4. Greet people in a proper and friendly manner. It is appreciated and returned by others, and makes you feel wonderful.
5. Never bully others or take advantage of their weaknesses. Bullies are not respected because they don't show respect. Allow people to keep their dignity.
6. Don’t act like a know it all. People do not appreciate it when you act superior to them.
7. Be a good role model. Set an example that others would like to follow. When another person imitates you, it is a sign of respect. If someone else has set a good example, let them know how much you appreciate it by your own actions.
8. Be yourself. Don't join in with the latest craze just because others may be following the popular style. Respect yourself by making your own choice, this will bring respect from others.
9. Give everyone a chance. Don't prejudge people, and be pleasant to everyone (until they give you a reason not to). Even if you realise someone is a jerk, always be civil and have class. People around you will respect that more than bad mouthing or confronting them in a mean way.
10. Don't be overly materialistic. Stay focused on people rather than objects that may be lost or destroyed; people are so much more important and our true value is not what we have, it is the person we are inside that others will respect. But in the same vein pay attention to the fact that while materialism is not all of life, it is part of it. We all need things to survive, and while we always must remember that things are not everything and others aren't to be judged just on what they have, we must also keep track of our things and take care of them, conserve them and expect respect for our things from others. Just don't get it in your head that things are everything.
11. Respect yourself and others around you. - Keep your home and surroundings clean and well kept. Your neighbours will respect you and the neighbourhood will be a better place for everyone. Treating others with respect is the most important thing to do; if you treat someone with respect, they'll treat you with respect.
12. State your boundaries. Clearly communicate what you are willing to accept and what the consequences for trespassing of these boundaries are. Do what you announced to do (or not to do) every time the trespassing happens.
Anggun Parassuci Adely
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The Seven Rules to Speak
This additional rules are more art or even scientific, can help achieve a more level
high ability in oral and verbal communication. One thing to remember is, that is, and however
we are projected as a public speaker, the quality and qualifications
will always closely related to how we speak in the daily life.
That means the quality of speech and professional business, the quality of
mass communication and interpersonal, is one that
intact.
POLITE
We may be angry, we should praise, and we can make interrogation.
That is forms of communication. We can say
anything in any way. But in the end, what are we speak will be back to who are we and how are our attitude. So that, we always have two options for the
stand and look:
1. Tile love, love and pity; or
2. Tile fear, feel uncomfortable or feel threatened.
Each tile shows the various implications of the same or similar.
Uniform, one family, and one relationship.
Tiles one, colored with a sense of respect, acceptance,
enjoy, light, enthusiastic. What is communicated have the contents of
love, love and pity.
Tile that one of sarcasm, blame, point, accuse,
threaten, get mad, fear, panic, defend themselves, control the appetite.
What is communicated have the contents of fear and inconvenience.
BEWARE OF THE IMPACT
For some people, communication is a war. The goal is to
win, and words are the commander.
The good communicator is a communicator who knows and understands
the impact of words. They are also experts in to adjust them
with the situation and atmosphere.
CHOOSE POSITIVE THINGS
Communication is more than the traffic information
and message. Good communicator will leave comfortable feeling and
value on those who listen.
So, to communicate is not only about words. Communication is
about people and human. And according to Daniel Coleman, each
interaction on the two implications; better, or worse.
DIDN’T HAVE BEEN ASSUMES UNDERSTOOD
Long history note in human life, almost always shows the dark side that is triggered by
misunderstandings in the communicate.
According to Stephen Covey, "First, be understood, and then understand it. "
WHEN MUST BE SILENT
The only one, they want to impressing people.
Results from the worst situations of this kind, is wasting
time and decrease productivity.
Good communicator is a communicator, who feels quite safe,
when they have to recognize that there are only a few thing will
discussed, or even not have it at all. They know when must be silent.
Albert Einstein give the formula:
If A is successful, then:
A = X + Y + Z
X = work
Y = play
Z = close mouth
Relativity law also have:
E = mc2
E = excellency
m = mAN
C2 = quadratic character
DIDN’T MAKE INTERRUPTION
Interruptions will only create a race and contest. And it’s
called "the bigger fish syndrome".
"My fish is big!"
"Wuhu .. My fish is bigger than yours!"
"But my fish is bla…bla…bla!"
If we didn’t try to refrain interrupt people, whereas
when the time has come to open the mouth, we certainly have
these symptoms: nausea, to vomiting, throat feels will break. Its means, that we are not ready.
STOP GOSSIP!
If there is any inducement to fall into both of them, note this:
- No response;
- No reply;
- Not affected;
- No initiative to do so.
"Deep thoughts inspire great ideas, average minds appreciate
situation, and bad mind is gossiping people. "
Dewi Ratnasari
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PERSONALITY OF PEOPLE VALUE(BODY LANGUAGE)
MEANING OF PERSONALITY
Personality is that something independent,but also something that open against surroundings world.
follow Gorden W.Allport(1937) Personality is the dynamic organization within the individual of thoses phychophysical system that determine his unique adjustment to his environment.
DEFINITION OF PERSONALITY
To principle term personality to put for meaning that to direction individual.That is have personality is individual.Then term personality to put again for group individual or community.
One organization dynamic,that is one roundness stability,organization or system attract and connection various as aspect or component personality.
TYPE’S PERSONALITY
Galenus follow human being 3 type
1) Cholericus :This people big and body strong,blood device,hard self control.
2) Sanguinicus :This people face happy and bright,living childish.
3) Flegmeticus :This people character silent,lazy,pessimist and face always slightly.
Heymans follow human being 4 type:
1) Gapasioneerdent:Emotional and active of people as soon as strong secondary function.
2) Cholerici:Emotional and active of people but weak secondary function.
3) Sentimentil:Emotional,not active of people and strong secondary function.
4) Nerveuzen:Not active of people and weak secondary function.
Spranger follow human being 4 type:
1) Theory human being
This people’s opinion knowledge science most important,wealthy on whole.
2) Economy human being
Value turn important for this of people is money(economy)
3) Social human being
For this of people,social value turn influence life.
4) Politics human being
Value most important for this of people is politics.
GRATE PERSONALITY
• Observation
Responsibility value with observation that is with method observe/attention behavior direct.
• Interview
Responsibility value interview,meen create face meet and speak for heart with people that value.
• Inventory
Kind kuesi that should answer by respondent like unspacious.
• Technique proyektif
Responsibility value with use technique proyektif.
• Biography and autobiography
Biography and autobiography can to put responsibility value.
• Diary
Diary of people contains activity than to put everyday,can analysis and responsibility value.
ASPECT’S PERSONALITY
Kognitif aspect that is throughimage,remembrance,initiative,creativity,observation and way of felling.
Affective aspect that is part mentality that related with earth life,felling or emotional.
Motorik aspect that is function like executor human being behavior like action and physical movement.
3 BODY LANGUAGE MOMENT SPEAK WITH OF PEOPLE
1. Maynot foot cross and your hand
Maybe your finished often listen that hand cross or foot can several that locked your against peer your opinion and this not create relation speaker good.
2. Perform eye contact,although look don’t
With perform eye contact at look question compose while you listen or not.
3. For distance between your second foot
Give distance between foot second(not cole)good inside position stand either sit reveal your believed and healthy with your position.
imabella dezano
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A Good Attitude Leads to Success
What is the secret to Success?
There are numerous “secrets” out there on attaining success. The vast majority of these so called secrets all have one thing in common attitude.
The reasons why people choose not to apply this main secret of success to their own lives remains something of a mystery. Apparently, most people just are not interest in attaining the heights of what this life has to offer them. Or, they are content with “just getting by”, as so many of us are.
The more ambitious individuals, however, are constantly on the look out for ways of becoming successful in life. These types of folks want to be something more than a person who “just gets by.” The question then becomes – how do I rise above mediocrity? How can I get to the point where I have more time, money, and energy than I actually need?
What do you need?
The key to developing a successful attitude is to decide that there are certain things in life that you need, rather than merely want. For example, do you want a luxury house? Do you want a lot of money? Do you want to be the top boss at your job? Do you want fame and fortune in your career? Do you want to be able to eventually travel the world without having to worry about expenses?
Sure, everyone wants these things. Problem is, very few people are able to attain them. The reason why is that it is never enough to merely want something. You have to be the type of individual who feels that they need these things in order to survive. This gives you the motivation to work towards your dream and do whatever it takes – except, of course, for breaking laws or hurting people – to get there. And all this must be done with the “fuel” of a positive attitude.
In the field of human resources, the idea of “hiring for attitude” has become something of a mantra in recent years. Since about thirty percent of most people’s lives is spent at work, it is key to have people in a work place with positive attitudes.
How do I begin to change my attitude?
While it is always useful to connect with useful resources outside us in changing our attitude for the better, ultimately the change will always begin inside you. Try to pay closer attention to your inner thoughts. Do you find yourself constantly plagued with doubt? Are you frequently depressed about your lot in life?
Realizing where are negative thoughts come from can help us get to the point where we are able to erase them. Once they are erased, it is key to replace them with more affirmative thoughts. This is how we begin to make an attitude adjustment.
What do I do once I've made an attitude adjustment?
First off, it is vital to have a clear definition of what your goals in life are. Once you have a clear image in your mind of where you see yourself, say, ten years from now, write it down. Go in to as much detail as possible.
Next, you should make a list of all the things you need to accomplish – again, not merely the things you “want” to accomplish. For every thing you need to accomplish, you should be able to write ten at least ten reasons justifying why this need of yours is very real.
The more needs you have in life, the more motivation you will have to go out and actualize them one by one. If you look at the most successful individuals currently working in your field, you will find that each and every one of them has an endless supply of motivation and ambition. It is this motivation that fuels them in their journey towards accomplishing their goals in life.
Remember what you are up against – mass apathy. Perhaps your friends and loved ones will not understand the new you. They are probably “just get by” types who do not see the point in aiming for the skies. But you can become a role model for them and it begins by developing a positive attitude!
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Some tips to speak better in public:
- Speak more honest
- Full understand eyes view of audiences
- Speak with dynamically sound intonation
- Move your body gesture to help audiences catching the understanding topic
- Broad your knowledge
Some tips to solve unconfidence :
- Improve your confidence
- Breave to speak wherever and whenever there is a time to speak
- Begin from a small group
- Write the topic before presentation
- More better if we have common to writing
- Increase to reading
- Don’t be a silent person in forum discussion
- Evaluate your self after speaking
- Make a commitmen to exercise
Ratnati
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Communication is a process of transferring information from one source to another. Communication is commonly defined as the imparting or interchange of thoughts, opinions, or information by speech, writing, or signs.
Types of communication
1. Dialogue or verbal communication
A dialogue is a reciprocal conversation between two or more entities. The etymological origins of the word concepts like flowing-through meaning do not necessarily convey the way in which people have come to use the word, with some confusion between leading to the assumption that a dialogue is necessarily between only two parties.
2. Nonverbal communication
Nonverbal communication is the process of communicating through sending and receiving wordless messages. Such messages can be communicated through gesture, body language or posture; facial expression and eye contact.
3.Visual communication
Visual communication as the name suggests is communication through visual aid. It is the conveyance of ideas and information in forms that can be read or looked upon. Primarily associated with two dimensional images. It includes: signs, typography, drawing, graphic design, illustration, colour and electronic resources
A gesture is a form of non-verbal communication made with a part of the body, used instead of or in combination with verbal communication. The language of gesture is rich in ways for individuals to express a variety of feelings and thoughts, from contempt and hostility to approval and affection. In the world of gestures, the best single piece of advice is to remember the two A's - "Ask" and be "aware." If you see a motion or gesture that is new or confusing , ask a local person what it signifies
Head/face gestures
- Facial expressions
Facial expressions are a rich language in their own right and will not be discussed in this article
- Eye-rolling
Rotating the eyes upward generally signals condescension, contempt, boredom, or exasperation. It can be interpreted as the equivalent of saying, "I don't like this" or "I think this is really stupid" or "I simply can't believe this."
-Head shaking
Repeated turning of the head side to side in arcs along the transverse plane has a meaning opposite to the nod: negation in many cultures and confirmation in some.
-Thumb the Nose
Brushing the thumb against the nose is a 'tough guy' gesture usually meant to provoke another
-Pointing by lips
A direction may be pointed with the lips, in the same fashion as it is done with the chin. Lips are pointed as in an air kiss.
- Bent head
A gesture of shame, subduing, or agreement/confirmation. An interpretation depends on the way it being performed and overall body context. Or, can be used as a greeting
Hand gestures
Hand gestures, is, gestures performed by one or two hands, is the most numerous category of gestures due to the ability of the human hand to acquire a huge number of clearly discernible configurations, the fact of importance for the sign languages.
Body gestures
This is moving the body in a certain way when orally communicating.
- Mooning
Mooning is the act of displaying one's bare buttocks by lowering the back side of one's trousers and underpants, usually without exposing the genitals. Mooning is used in some cultures to express protest, scorn, disrespect, or provocation
- Anasyrma
Anasyrma or "lifting the skirts" is a gesture traceable to European antiquity. It is used in connection with certain religious rituals, eroticism, and lewd jokes.
- The "peacock"
Expresses superiority or domination combined with a certain degree of smug arrogance. Performed by pushing the chest up and out at the front as well as tilting the face slightly upward. This may be accompanied by motions of hooking both thumbs under one's lapels or suspenders even if they are not present.
Name: Sholihah Puspitaningtyas
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Body Language
Communication is the activities by one or more people, send and receive message or idea to other people, have certain influence and have opportunity for feedback.
Communication consided of:
* Communication verbal
* Communication nonverbal
The aspect of body language is important in conversation in public:
1. Eye Contact
Eye contact is very important in communication because it help us in talking with audience or other people. As a good speaker, we must staring at our talking opponent and give a interval for broaching. This matter can show our attention to our talking opponent.
Eye contact is persuade talking people that show happy and respect. People see o’clock or see a something in place of far that show people isn’t listen or busy what the things will conversation again. Speaker isn’t maintain eye contact by adequate will so far, not attention and not believe more than speaker is directly to look intently for audience. Without eye contact, you can’t realize of feedback that very important from audience. So, good speaker must maintain eye contact with audience. To involve all audience in conversation in public.
2. Face expression
Face represent is the mirror personality someone. Expression of somebody face depict the mood and lay open the somebody mind. Face expression include features used for communication way of emotional or reaction against a message. The statement face sign a problem when:
1. Face expression didn’t symbol feeling.
2. face expression is not all show that feeling and idea.
The face expression is very important when people talk with talking opponent . it can show feeling of people whether it can strong message of sent. So that, listener with easy for understanding message or things.
3. Posture
If speak in public, stand upright but isn’t stiff. This sign is open and feel self confidence. Avoid of common mistake posture :
1. Don’t enter your hand into pocket
2. Don’t lean on table, white board and lectern
3. Don’t traversing hand
4. Don’t embracing goods by defensive
4. Gesture
Gesture is behavioral form nonverbal at gesticulating, shoulder and spike. Gesture will help in illustration message verbal. We do this matter of automatically in every conversation.
Effective body movement is spontant and natural for you as speaker, for public society and for your discussion. If you feel enjoy and comfort with myself and with your public society, you will do body movement natural without pretended.
5. Movement
Movement in here is meaning as body movement is big in character. Will help you for a little of move from one place to another place. This is make you and society more awaked.
According to William James, have 4 kinds of body language is generally implying your feeling and mind.
1. Body Language opened
Posture of forward looking, position of body and face look out on talking opponent. This body language implies the readiness of giving attention and warm feeling..
2. Body Language closed
Posture or body interest in the back, but don’t back fight talking oppnonent. For example, turning around up at others when talking opponent talking. This attitude show shy and bored. For opponent speak, this attitude is oftentimes interpreted with the cold attitude.
3. Expansive of body language
Visible body in alert posture. Generally, this attitude is owned by people have high self confidence. Unhappily people like this less can esteem its talking opponent
4. Body language tight.
This seen from posture body which dwindle, impressing body pulled palace.
ADITYA BRAHMANTA SAPUTRA
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How to be a good hacker..
Again, to be a good hacker, you have to enter the hacker mindset. There are some things you can do when you're not at a computer that seem to help. They're not substitutes for hacking (nothing is) but many hackers do them, and feel that they connect in some basic way with the essence of hacking.
•Learn to write your native language well. Though it's a common stereotype that programmers can't write, a surprising number of hackers (including all the most accomplished ones I know of) are very able writers.
•Read science fiction. Go to science fiction conventions (a good way to meet hackers and proto-hackers).
•Train in a martial-arts form. The kind of mental discipline required for martial arts seems to be similar in important ways to what hackers do. The most popular forms among hackers are definitely Asian empty-hand arts such as Tae Kwon Do, various forms of Karate, Kung Fu, Aikido, or Ju Jitsu. Western fencing and Asian sword arts also have visible followings. In places where it's legal, pistol shooting has been rising in popularity since the late 1990s. The most hackerly martial arts are those which emphasize mental discipline, relaxed awareness, and control, rather than raw strength, athleticism, or physical toughness.
•Study an actual meditation discipline. The perennial favorite among hackers is Zen (importantly, it is possible to benefit from Zen without acquiring a religion or discarding one you already have). Other styles may work as well, but be careful to choose one that doesn't require you to believe crazy things.
•Develop an analytical ear for music. Learn to appreciate peculiar kinds of music. Learn to play some musical instrument well, or how to sing.
•Develop your appreciation of puns and wordplay.
The more of these things you already do, the more likely it is that you are natural hacker material. Why these things in particular is not completely clear, but they're connected with a mix of left- and right-brain skills that seems to be important; hackers need to be able to both reason logically and step outside the apparent logic of a problem at a moment's notice.
Work as intensely as you play and play as intensely as you work. For true hackers, the boundaries between "play", "work", "science" and "art" all tend to disappear, or to merge into a high-level creative playfulness. Also, don't be content with a narrow range of skills. Though most hackers self-describe as programmers, they are very likely to be more than competent in several related skills — system administration, web design, and PC hardware troubleshooting are common ones. A hacker who's a system administrator, on the other hand, is likely to be quite skilled at script programming and web design. Hackers don't do things by halves; if they invest in a skill at all, they tend to get
very good at it.
Finally, a few things not to do.
•Don't use a silly, grandiose user ID or screen name.
•Don't get in flame wars on Usenet (or anywhere else).
•Don't call yourself a ‘cyberpunk’, and don't waste your time on anybody who does.
•Don't post or email writing that's full of spelling errors and bad grammar.
The only reputation you'll make doing any of these things is as a twit. Hackers have long memories — it could take you years to live your early blunders down enough to be accepted.
RISQI AYU KUSUMASARI
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Definition of Communication:
•The exchange of throughts messager, or the like, as by speech, signals or writing.
•To express one self in such a way that one is readily and clearly understood.
•Communication is share feelings or shared understanding
STEP HOW TO DEVELOP GOOD COMUNICATION SKILLS :
Know what communication really is. Communication is the process of transferring signals/messages between a sender and a receiver through various methods (written words, nonverbal cues, spoken words).
Manifest constructive attitudes and beliefs. The attitudes you bring to communication will have a huge impact on the way you handle yourself and those with whom you interact.
Make eye contact. Whether you are speaking or being spoken to, looking into the eyes of the person you are in conversation with can make the experience successful.
Be aware of what your body is saying. Body language can say so much more than a mouthful of words.
Have courage to say what you think! Communication skills begin with simple communication.
Speak loudly enough to be heard. When you are saying what you think, have the confidence to say it so as to be heard.
Practice. Communication skills can be practiced every day in settings that range from the more social to the more professional. New skills take time to refine, but each time you use your communication skills you open yourself to opportunities and future partnerships.
Develop effective listening skills. Not only should one be able to speak effectively, one must listen to the other person's words and engage in communication on what the other person is speaking about.
Methods of communication :
•One-way
ex:Memo,fax,e-mail,voicemail,letter.
•Two-way
ex:Phone call, in-person
•Collaborative
ex:Team meetings, consulting, consensus, decision making, group problem solving.
TIPS :
•Try to speak fluently and try to make sure people can hear you when you speak.
•Make sure you're using proper grammar as well.
•Never rush with your words. Listen carefully and speak slowly so the other person can decipher what you are saying screen will make it difficult to see the detail.
•Enjoy yourself. The audience will be on your side and want to hear what you have to say.
Thanks..
KUSRINA LESTARI
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Body Language of Liar
You even lie, just only one. If for normal situation, don’t lie serious impact. But when a lie to the very important, that can be painfull and don’t fun at all. So to avoid that you don’t a lie, I have a tips for recognizing that he is not lie;
1.Body language
Paul Ekman specialist on the face expression, emotions and lie to say that the most simple way is to recognize the liar's body language.Because according to him that people tend to lie be rigid and not moving much.Even if the move is not likely often.
2.Eye
Eye can be a source of information, because the liar is trying to avoid eye contact as possible with the victim.
3.Hand and finger movements.
hand and finger movements can also be used as a reference. According to Mr. Paul, without realizing the liar often touching face, mouth and throat region itself, and sometimes also scraching claw-back of the nose or ear. Although don’t scraching..
4.One Oddity.
Another problem is the contradiction of the emotional condition! One oddity.Usually emotional expression and behavior of the liar, not common.not conection with emotion. For example, the mouth of say words sweet, but at the same face shape visible anger . In addition, expression of the mouth looks slicker and rigid.
5.interaction and reaction:
People feel wrong tend to be defensive or moment pairs defend themself.
6.Even :
The recognizing a content and contexs of the story arriving for the liar, aswer of the lie will usually repeat the words that you ask.
That are tips to identify the people lie so happy to try and good luck
Andreawan Eka S
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How To Communicate: Improve Your Relationships With Effective Communication Skills
1. Stay Focused: Sometimes it’s tempting to bring up past seemingly related conflicts when dealing with current ones. Unfortunately, this often clouds the issue and makes finding mutual understanding and a solution to the current issue less likely, and makes the whole discussion more taxing and even confusing. Try not to bring up past hurts or other topics. Stay focused on the present, your feelings, understanding one another and finding a solution.
2. Listen Carefully: People often think they’re listening, but are really thinking about what they’re going to say next when the other person stops talking. Truly effective communication goes both ways. While it might be difficult, try really listening to what your partner is saying. Don’t interrupt. Don’t get defensive. Just hear them and reflect back what they’re saying so they know you’ve heard. Then you’ll understand them better and they’ll be more willing to listen to you.
3. Try To See Their Point of View: In a conflict, most of us primarily want to feel heard and understood. We talk a lot about our point of view to get the other person to see things our way. Ironically, if we all do this all the time, there’s little focus on the other person’s point of view, and nobody feels understood. Try to really see the other side, and then you can better explain yours. (If you don't 'get it', ask more questions until you do.) Others will more likely be willing to listen if they feel heard.
4. Respond to Criticism with Empathy: When someone comes at you with criticism, it’s easy to feel that they’re wrong, and get defensive. While criticism is hard to hear, and often exaggerated or colored by the other person’s emotions, it’s important to listen for the other person’s pain and respond with empathy for their feelings. Also, look for what’s true in what they’re saying; that can be valuable information for you.
5. Own What’s Yours: Realize that personal responsibility is a strength, not a weakness. Effective communication involves admitting when you’re wrong. If you both share some responsibility in a conflict (which is usually the case), look for and admit to what’s yours. It diffuses the situation, sets a good example, and shows maturity. It also often inspires the other person to respond in kind, leading you both closer to mutual understanding and a solution.
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Here are some tips that will improve your communication skills:
In a conversation, really listen. You can show you are really listening my smiling, tilting your head to the side, nodding, inserting signs/words of agreement and so on. If you want people to hear you, you need to hear them.
Have good body language. Stand up straight, it will show confidence. Smile , you will seem approachable. Don't cross your arms over your chest, this tells people you disapprove. Keep your hands to your side, or if you are sitting, keep them in your lap.
When having a serious conversation with your boss, or a higher up, always turn a negative into a positive... for instance, if your boss says, I heard that they work pretty slowly, you should say something like " That's true, they didn't meet the original deadline, but the final product was of really high quality." I know its easy to vent, and skip adding a positive in, but employers want you to be a "yes" person, not a complainer.
Have confidence when you speak. If you are shy AND quiet, project your voice. Always look the person in the eye when you are speaking to them. If you avert your gaze, you will look nervous and not trust worthy. Never turn your head away from someone when you are speaking to them, it may show them you don't care enough to give them your full attention, and it will make it harder for the other person to hear what you are saying. Don't mumble and enunciate your words. Even if you feel intimidated, make sure you project your voice enough so that you are being clear. If someone has to keep asking " I'm sorry, I can't hear you, what did you say?" They will get irritated with you and the conversation. If you aren't sure how you sound to people when you are talking, record yourself and listen really closely to how you sound. Then pick out the areas you need to improve upon and get to work.
Don't let people intimidate you. If you feel intimidated by someone you are in a conversation with, DO NOT let it show. Think before you speak. Speak in an even tone of voice.
Never answer with " I don't know". This will make others feel like you don't care enough to give a response, or that you aren't knowledgeable enough to answer. When people ask questions, they want answers. If someone puts you on the spot, you don't have to answer them right then and there. Say something like " I'm in the middle of something, can I get back to you?" or " I don't want to ill advise you, let me find out for you."
Ade Nelly Yunitasari
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Communication
Communication activities on the principle activity is the exchange of ideas or idea. The simple, understood as the communication activities of delivery and acceptance of a message or idea from one side to the other party, with the aim to achieve the similarity of views on these ideas that are exchanged.
Elements that are in communication are:
- Komunikator: the person who delivered the message
- Message: ideas or information presented
- Media: a means of communication
- Komunikan: audience, the party receiving the message
- Feedback: a response from komunikan of the message it receives
Communication Function
- Building Up Concept (Establishing Self-Concept)
- The existence Arts (Self Existence)
- Viability (Live Continuity)
- Obtaining happiness (Obtaining Happiness)
- Avoid pressure and Stress (Free from Stress and Pressure)
Good Communication Skills
Good communication skills are key to success in life, work, and relationships. Without effective communication, a message can turn into error, misunderstanding, frustration or even disaster by being misinterpreted or poorly delivered.
How can we acquire good communication skills to be more effective?
The Important steps:
1. Know what you want to say and why. Understand clearly the purpose and intent of your message. Know to whom you are communicating and why.
2. How will you say it? We're all aware by now that it's not always what you say, but how you say it. Begin by making eye contact. You inspire trust and confidence when you look a person in the eyes when you speak.
3. Listen. Communication is a two way street. After you've said what you have to say, stop, listen and look for feedback and clues of comprehension. While the person is responding avoid any impulses to cut them off or listen only for the end of the sentence so that you can blurt out more ideas or thoughts that come to your mind. Respectfully give them your full attention. When they are finished, to ensure that your message has been clearly and correctly understood, ask open questions and encourage discussion. Fine-tune your message if necessary.
4. Reach understanding, agreement or consensus. Once you have had to opportunity to discuss your message and the feedback to it, re-visit the purpose of the interchange. Have you reached common ground, solved a problem or clarified your position? If the purpose was to teach or instruct, have you accomplished your goal? To communicate well is to understand and be understood. Make sure that your message has been received as intended and that any questions or concerns have been alleviated. You can even agree to disagree. There are no guarantees that your communication efforts will be meet with total compliance and agreement. As long as you understand each other, are cordial and respectful, you can still have a successful exchange.
Helpful Tips for Developing Good Communication Skills
· To obtain a better command of the English language (or any other language), expand your vocabulary by reading and writing more. Look up words you're not familiar with. The better you are able to express yourself, the better your ability to communicate.
· Practice your listening skills. Be considerate of other speakers by waiting until they are done before stating your views. Process what has being said before responding.
· Learn to understand and appreciate opposing points of view by being open-minded and making an effort to see things from others' perspective. It will in turn, gain you more cooperation and understanding.
· Avoid trying to communicate when in an emotional state. You lose objectivity and may say something inappropriate or regrettable. Take time to think your position through before speaking.
· Join an organization such as Toastmasters that encourages you to develop a variety of communication skills, as well as the opportunity to meet new and interesting people.
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How to have good communication skills
A guide to good communication skills even if you are shy.
People are shy for many reasons, they may have a withdrawn personality, be insecure, feel like they aren't good at socializing, have a hard time expressing themselves, and so on.
People who are shy, usually do not like the fact that people point out that they are shy, quiet, or both, and chalk it up to " That's just the way I am."
Bad communication ....be it written, oral, or body language, can send the wrong message in more ways than one. Most people would rather be around those who are easy to communicate with, and are open, than those who need "special treatment" like shy people.
If your communication skills are poor you will experience a great deal of trouble in your personal, working, and general relationships. You may have even noticed that being shy causes you aggravation in your day to day life.
Some people experience bouts of shyness, for instance, someone who might normally be out going, may be afraid of public speaking, or talking to their boss, --- you get the idea.
The most important part of having good communication, especially if you are shy, is to remain relaxed, open, and confident. This will give you the appearance of being easy-going. People like to communicate with easy going people, because its easier to communicate with them! Its all about confidence. If you are confident in yourself, you will automatically speak more clearly and have better communication than someone who is not confident ( and quiet, shy, and mumbles, etc). You simply have to say to yourself " I QUIT BEING SHY" and GET OVER IT.
How can I become a good communicator?
Do you think all communication between people is verbal?
In fact, approximately 93% of messages are sent through non-verbal communication such as body language.
If you want to be a good communicator you take the following into account:
remembers people’s names, greet them in a friendly manner and speak to them with courtesy and respect.
knows that what he communicates non-verbally can be more meaningful than the words he uses so he always sends the suitable non-verbal message that supports his words.
focuses on the person with whom he is speaking. It will definitely enhance the effectiveness of communication.
listens as much or more than he talks. Listening is one of the most effective ways to show interest in another person.
is positive and polite.
usually read great books to develop his communication skills.
Diagram of good communication
If you are having trouble communicating effectively with clients, seek help from another staff member or your workplace supervisor.
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All the skills in the world will not help you communicate effectively if you are not interested in other people and in the world around you. You should think about how you would like people to treat you and then treat them in the same way.
If you want to be a good communicator you take the following into account:
1.A good communicator remembers people’s names, greet them in a friendly manner and speak to them with courtesy and respect.
2.A good communicator knows that what he communicates non-verbally can be more meaningful than the words he uses so he always sends the suitable non-verbal message that supports his words.
3.A good communicator focuses on the person with whom he is speaking. He makes this person feel like the most important person in his universe. It will definitely enhance the effectiveness of communication.
4.A good communicator listens as much or more than he talks. Listening is one of the most effective ways to show interest in another person. Effective listening involves more than remaining silent. Nod your head in agreement, make little response noises, use prompters like ``interesting'' or ``tell me more,'' or ask pertinent questions to show you are paying attention. Open-ended questions that require more than a yes or no answer encourage the other person to talk.
5.A good communicator is positive and polite. He masters the rules of etiquette and good manners since these are what grease the wheels of effective interpersonal relationships.
6.A good communicator usually read great books to develop his communication skills. He is also interested in learning the proper way to speak well because he believes in the saying “Speech is a mirror of the soul. As a man speaks, so is he“
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Develop of Good Communication Skills
There are some of the steps for effective communication skills :
-Make Direct Eye Contact
Make direct eye contacts when you are talking to the other person. This helps you to convey interest and encourage the other person to show interest in your conversation. Even during a speech, looking into the eyes of different people present in front of you can personalize your speech and the people around take interest to hear you.
-Stay In Tune with Your Body Language
Body language speaks a lot what you don’t speak, much more than the words of mouth. So, try to maintain a balance between what you say and what your body says. Be aware of what your body is saying. A simple example to this can be experienced when you are giving a speech or consoling a friend. During a speech your words may convey that you are keen to help people in all ways for but if you stand with your arms crossed, your body conveys disinterest and reluctance to communicate. Whereas, when you are consoling your friend for any loss or depression, standing with your arms free on your sides convey that you are easily accessible.
-Speak Loudly
When you speak loudly, it gives a feeling of confidence. The people whom you are in conversation with have the feeling that you mean what you say. An appropriate volume, tone and confidence ensure listeners hear exactly what you are saying.
-Practice
This is one such quality that can be practiced. You can daily practice these skills according to different settings from being social to professional. You can also attend some courses for developing these skills and explore new communication opportunities.
Tips for Public Speaking
-Know
Know the needs of your audience to their needs and know what your strong and weak points are.
Body Language
-Standing, walking or moving with appropriate hand gesture or facial expression.
-Speak with conviction
As if you really believe in what you are saying.
-Do not read from notes
For any extended length of time although it is quite acceptable to glance at your notes infrequently.
-Maintain sincere eye contact
Maintain sincere eye contact with audience.
-Speak, Listen, Respond, Adjust and Adapt
Speak to your audience, listen to their question, respond to their interactions, adjust and adapt.
-Pause
Allow yourself and your audience a little time to reflect and think.
-Humor
Add humor whenever appropriate and possible.
-Handouts
Have handouts ready and give them out at the appropriate time.
Benefit of Good Communication
-To help the people we interact and communicate with each other .
-To have and feel the bliss of healthy overflow of emotions at workplace and at home.
-At management level, it use to create an environment of open communication, short messages, recognize nonverbal signals and mutual understanding.
-At social level, it use to motivate and console children and old aged citizen.
-Can help women section of the society to raise their voice for their rights and freedom that are usually devoid by the male sections of the society.
So, benefit of good communication skills are endless. With effective skills and self development, you can achieve success and win the game of life
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How to make a good decision?
Life is full of decisions; we make hundreds of them every day. Most are automatic and minor ones. However, occasionally we are compelled to make vitally important decisions about major life-goals. These decisions are often practical or ethical ones. For example, we occasionally have to take major decisions like choosing a marriage partner or decisions about what to do with your life. A positive attitude to life helps make major decision making far easier and less stressful. Here are some general hints on decision making:
1.Don't fear making a mistake.
2.Develop your intuition and logic, but listen to what your heart says (gut feeling).
3.Stop and think before you act.
4.Get opinions and feedback from others you trust; but don't let them make the decision for you.
5.Look for OPPORTUNITIES in any decision. Each "mistake" is an opportunity to learn.
6.Accept total responsibility for your decisions. Responsibility is not BLAME
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MAKING PEOPLE LIKES YOU AT THE FIRST SIGHT
Ussually, people look someone physiclly at first sight. Fascinatin is important to meke people look at you, or make curious at you.Fascination tieded tightly with how you look, and more tieded with how you influence feeling of people.
If you see someone, you will see his/her physic, his/her Attitude and Body Language, not mental. So, Attitude and Body Language (Gesture) are the main point in visual impression.
Intitusiftly we are consider and guess each other. Mostly attention of people to someone is about 30 seconds. So, If you make an impression in first minute, you create awareness that you are sincere, save, and believable.
Step by step for greeting in first meeting :
1. Open.
This mean is open your heart, use your positif attitude to make his/her guess that you are good man.
2. Eyes.
Make an eyes contact. Look his/her directly into the eyes with soft sight. Let your eyes to reflect your positive attitude.
3. Smile.
Make a soft and sincere smile, which unconsciously catched others is impression from someone which relly heartfelt.
4. Hai.
Say hai or hallo in refined voices.
If you want to introduce each other. Introduce your self first.
Example:
“Hai, my name is Bambang, may I know your name?” (Right)
“Hai, may I know your name?” (false)
Make positive attitude when you meet people at the first time with opened gesture.
Smile,
Make eyes contact,
Give respon,
Up your eyebrow,
Etc.
to show that you are interest, and it means “I believe You”
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How to be nice person
SMILE
It's amazing what a smile can do. It can break down barriers between people of different cultures, even if they don't speak the same language. Smiling can also affect your own mood, so practice smiling more. You'll notice an immediate improvement in your mood and in the moods of people around you.
As science has revealed, there are natural ways to increase the quality of your smile. Here are five ways you can have a warm, nicer looking and much more attractive smile:
1.Avoid snacking.2.Brush your teeth properly.3.Live a healthy lifestyle.
PUT YOUR SELF IN ANOTHER PERSON POSITION
Sometimes it can be hard to look past your own self-interest, but to truly be a nice person, sometimes you have to compromise your own position for the good of those around you. Just remember that not every occasion necessitates a compromise, particularly if it involves your moral beliefs.
Do nice things for people
even when no one is around to see. Make a habit of being considerate even when you have no expectation of a reward or recognition. Mow the yard of an elderly neighbor, volunteer for a food bank or give a new mom a night off by offering to be a free babysitter. Small gestures are often more appreciated than grand offerings.
Be nice to yourself
You can't be nice to others if your own needs aren't being met. Take time to do things that you enjoy. Read a book, go to a movie or just take a walk around the park. The better you feel, the better you'll treat other people.
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Improve your business communication to increase your interpersonal skills…and your impact on the bottom line!
Business communication with colleagues in different departments is no longer just a matter of having good working relationships...it is a business imperative. With a focus on behavioral skills and promoting cooperation in the workplace, this highly interactive business communication seminar shows you how to develop “win-win” cross-functional relationships that lead to organizational effectiveness.
How You Will Benefit
Increase the positive impact your behavior can have on relationships with those in other functions
Use diagnostic tools and evaluate the implications of your behavioral strengths and weaknesses for business communication
Deliver better customer service through improved interdepartmental cooperation and business communication
Understand the importance of viewing challenges from the other team's perspective
Develop a customized action plan to improve cross-functional business communication in your workplace
What You Will Cover
Business communication across functions, including virtual communication
Establishing joint goals across functions
Identifying causes of conflict and learning to resolve it
Developing business communication skills that will help foster collaborative relationships
Influencing those in other functions and practicing “good” organizational politics
Understanding different work styles and how to identify compatibilities and potential conflicts
Keeping up an accelerated pace by focusing on building networks across functions
Who Should Attend
Anyone who needs to improve business communication skills to better relate to other individuals and departments and more successfully accomplish his or her job.
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- TO BE A GOOD COMMUNICATOR
Communicator is a person that sent a message to public. The component of communication is source, sender and speaker. A source can to be a communicator, but a communicator is not always as a source. Maybe it can be an executor from a source for informating a message to public .
HOW TO BE A GOOD COMMUNICATOR
Need a definite condition for be a good communicator so that can received by public.
Have a proximility with public.
distance someone with source influencing its attention for a definite message.
Have the same and attractiveness social and physic.
A communicator get an attention if all of the physic have an attractiveness for audience.
Similarity is an important factor that influencing receiving a message by public.
This similarity is including gender, education, age, religion, social, ras, hobby and language. And similarity also include reason of attitude and orientation to many aspect like as book, music, clothes, job, family, and etc. Preferention of public to a communicator, based on similarity of culture, religion, ras, job, and education influence to proccess of selection and interpretation.
Similared of credibility and otority
Public inclined remember the message and source that they believe as a person that have experience and or knowledge.
factor of credibility are trustworthiness, expertise, composure, dynamism, sociability, extroversion, and have similarity with audience.
To clever for delivery the message.
The fashion of communicator to delivery of message also become the important of factor in receiving of message.
Knew the status, powered, and tyrannical.
The status in here to indicate for position in structure social or organization. Beside that, the power and authority coursing to the competent of person give the reward and punishment.
CONCLUSION.
Communicator is a person who send a message to public to be successes communication proccess so the communicants can received a message clearly. A communicants will do or to aplication the message that sent by communicator in communicants live.
DHIKA SEPTRI ANDINI
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- TO BE A GOOD COMMUNICATOR
Communicator is a person that sent a message to public. The component of communication is source, sender and speaker. A source can to be a communicator, but a communicator is not always as a source. Maybe it can be an executor from a source for informating a message to public .
HOW TO BE A GOOD COMMUNICATOR
Need a definite condition for be a good communicator so that can received by public.
Have a proximility with public.
distance someone with source influencing its attention for a definite message.
Have the same and attractiveness social and physic.
A communicator get an attention if all of the physic have an attractiveness for audience.
Similarity is an important factor that influencing receiving a message by public.
This similarity is including gender, education, age, religion, social, ras, hobby and language. And similarity also include reason of attitude and orientation to many aspect like as book, music, clothes, job, family, and etc. Preferention of public to a communicator, based on similarity of culture, religion, ras, job, and education influence to proccess of selection and interpretation.
Similared of credibility and otority
Public inclined remember the message and source that they believe as a person that have experience and or knowledge.
factor of credibility are trustworthiness, expertise, composure, dynamism, sociability, extroversion, and have similarity with audience.
To clever for delivery the message.
The fashion of communicator to delivery of message also become the important of factor in receiving of message.
Knew the status, powered, and tyrannical.
The status in here to indicate for position in structure social or organization. Beside that, the power and authority coursing to the competent of person give the reward and punishment.
CONCLUSION.
Communicator is a person who send a message to public to be successes communication proccess so the communicants can received a message clearly. A communicants will do or to aplication the message that sent by communicator in communicants live.
DHIKA SEPTRI ANDINI
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- TO BE A GOOD COMMUNICATOR
Communicator is a person that sent a message to public. The component of communication is source, sender and speaker. A source can to be a communicator, but a communicator is not always as a source. Maybe it can be an executor from a source for informating a message to public .
HOW TO BE A GOOD COMMUNICATOR
Need a definite condition for be a good communicator so that can received by public.
Have a proximility with public.
distance someone with source influencing its attention for a definite message.
Have the same and attractiveness social and physic.
A communicator get an attention if all of the physic have an attractiveness for audience.
Similarity is an important factor that influencing receiving a message by public.
This similarity is including gender, education, age, religion, social, ras, hobby and language. And similarity also include reason of attitude and orientation to many aspect like as book, music, clothes, job, family, and etc. Preferention of public to a communicator, based on similarity of culture, religion, ras, job, and education influence to proccess of selection and interpretation.
Similared of credibility and otority
Public inclined remember the message and source that they believe as a person that have experience and or knowledge.
factor of credibility are trustworthiness, expertise, composure, dynamism, sociability, extroversion, and have similarity with audience.
To clever for delivery the message.
The fashion of communicator to delivery of message also become the important of factor in receiving of message.
Knew the status, powered, and tyrannical.
The status in here to indicate for position in structure social or organization. Beside that, the power and authority coursing to the competent of person give the reward and punishment.
CONCLUSION.
Communicator is a person who send a message to public to be successes communication proccess so the communicants can received a message clearly. A communicants will do or to aplication the message that sent by communicator in communicants live.
DHIKA
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- TO BE A GOOD COMMUNICATOR
Communicator is a person that sent a message to public. The component of communication is source, sender and speaker. A source can to be a communicator, but a communicator is not always as a source. Maybe it can be an executor from a source for informating a message to public .
HOW TO BE A GOOD COMMUNICATOR
Need a definite condition for be a good communicator so that can received by public.
Have a proximility with public.
distance someone with source influencing its attention for a definite message.
Have the same and attractiveness social and physic.
A communicator get an attention if all of the physic have an attractiveness for audience.
Similarity is an important factor that influencing receiving a message by public.
This similarity is including gender, education, age, religion, social, ras, hobby and language. And similarity also include reason of attitude and orientation to many aspect like as book, music, clothes, job, family, and etc. Preferention of public to a communicator, based on similarity of culture, religion, ras, job, and education influence to proccess of selection and interpretation.
Similared of credibility and otority
Public inclined remember the message and source that they believe as a person that have experience and or knowledge.
factor of credibility are trustworthiness, expertise, composure, dynamism, sociability, extroversion, and have similarity with audience.
To clever for delivery the message.
The fashion of communicator to delivery of message also become the important of factor in receiving of message.
Knew the status, powered, and tyrannical.
The status in here to indicate for position in structure social or organization. Beside that, the power and authority coursing to the competent of person give the reward and punishment.
CONCLUSION.
Communicator is a person who send a message to public to be successes communication proccess so the communicants can received a message clearly. A communicants will do or to aplication the message that sent by communicator in communicants live.
WINNIE MARLADEWI W.
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How to Detect Lies
Become a Lie Detector
Introduction to Detecting Lies:
The following techniques to telling if someone is lying are often used by police, and security experts. This knowledge is also useful for managers, employers, and for anyone to use in everyday situations where telling the truth from a lie can help prevent you from being a victim of fraud/scams and other deceptions.
Warning: Sometimes Ignorance is bliss; after gaining this knowledge, you may be hurt when it is obvious that someone is lying to you.
Signs of Deception:
Body Language of Lies:
• Physical expression will be limited and stiff, with few arm and hand movements. Hand, arm and leg movement are toward their own body the liar takes up less space.
• A person who is lying to you will avoid making eye contact.
• Hands touching their face, throat & mouth. Touching or scratching the nose or behind their ear. Not likely to touch his chest/heart with an open hand.
Emotional Gestures & Contradiction
• Timing and duration of emotional gestures and emotions are off a normal pace. The display of emotion is delayed, stays longer it would naturally, then stops suddenly.
• Timing is off between emotions gestures/expressions and words. Example: Someone says "I love it!" when receiving a gift, and then smile after making that statement, rather then at the same time the statement is made.
• Gestures/expressions don’t match the verbal statement, such as frowning when saying “I love you.”
• Expressions are limited to mouth movements when someone is faking emotions (like happy, surprised, sad, awe, )instead of the whole face. For example; when someone smiles naturally their whole face is involved: jaw/cheek movement, eyes and forehead push down, etc.
Interactions and Reactions
• A guilty person gets defensive. An innocent person will often go on the offensive.
• A liar is uncomfortable facing his questioner/accuser and may turn his head or body away.
• A liar might unconsciously place objects (book, coffee cup, etc.) between themselves and you.
Verbal Context and Content
• A liar will use your words to make answer a question. When asked, “Did you eat the last cookie?” The liar answers, “No, I did not eat the last cookie.”
•A statement with a contraction is more likely to be truthful: “ I didn't do it” instead of “I did not do it”
• Liars sometimes avoid "lying" by not making direct statements. They imply answers instead of denying something directly.
• The guilty person may speak more than natural, adding unnecessary details to convince you... they are not comfortable with silence or pauses in the conversation.
• A liar may leave out pronouns and speak in a monotonous tone. When a truthful statement is made the pronoun is emphasized as much or more than the rest of the words in a statement.
• Words may be garbled and spoken softly, and syntax and grammar may be off. In other
words, his sentences will likely be muddled rather than emphasized.
Other signs of a lie:
• If you believe someone is lying, then change subject of a conversation quickly, a liar follows along willingly and becomes more relaxed. The guilty wants the subject changed; an innocent person may be confused by the sudden change in topics and will want to back to the previous subject.
• Using humor or sarcasm to avoid a subject.
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The way to make people like you
• Become genuinely interested in other people. You must have a good time meeting people if you expect them to have a good time meeting you.
• Smiling. Your smile brightens the lives of all who see it.
• Remember that a person's name.The sweetest and most important sound in any language.
• Be a good listener. Encourage others to talk about themselves .
• Talk in terms of the other person's interest.Ask questions that other persons will enjoy answering.
• Make the other person feel important - and do it sincerely.Talk to people about themselves and they will listen for hours.
effective conversation
• Make eye contact. Looking directly at the other person is a courteous indication that you are listening.
• Speak clearly and audibly. In this way people could understand what you are talking about clearly
• Speak at a good pace.If your comments are well thought out and interesting, you will be heard.
• Use language and images familiar to the listener. Your conversations will be more effective if you try to speak the language of the person with whom you’re talking.
• Stick to the topic. When you’re talking with someone, try focusing your attention on them more.
• Know when to speak and when to listen. Conversation should be give and take.
• Express an interest in what’s being said. Face the speaker with unfolded arms.
• Ask open-ended questions to promote communication. Questions that require more than a yes or no response.
• Be prepared. Try new things so you’ll have something to talk about.
Win people to your way of thinking
• The only way to get the best of an argument is to avoid it.
• Show respect for the other person's opinions. Never say, "You're wrong."
• If you are wrong, admit it quickly and emphatically.
• Begin in a friendly way.
• Let the other person do a great deal of the talking.
• Let the other person feel that the idea is his or hers.
• Try honestly to see things from the other person's point of view.
• Be sympathetic with the other person's ideas and desires.
• Dramatize your ideas.
• Throw down a challenge.
How to break the worry habit before it breaks you
• Crowd worry out of your mind by keeping busy. Plenty of action is one of the best therapies ever devised.
• Don't fuss about trifles. Don't permit little things that ruin your happiness.
• Use the law of averages to outlaw your worries. Ask yourself: "What are the odds against this thing's happening at all?"
• Co-operate with the inevitable. If you know a circumstance is beyond your power to change or revise, say to yourself: "It is so; it cannot be otherwise."
• Put a "stop-less" order on your worries. Decide just how much anxiety a thing may be worth--and refuse to give it anymore.
• Let the past bury its dead. Don't saw sawdust.
mental attitude that will bring you peace and happiness
• Let's fill our minds with thoughts of peace, courage, health, and hope, for "our life is what our thoughts make it."
• Let's never try to get even with our enemies, because if we do we will hurt ourselves far more than we hurt them.
• Count your blessings--not your troubles!
• Let's not imitate others. Let's find ourselves and be ourselves.
• When fate hands us a lemon, let's try to make lemonade.
• Let's forget our own unhappiness--by trying to create a little happiness for others.
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Communication is a process of transferring information from one source to another. Communication is commonly defined as "the imparting or interchange of thoughts, opinions, or information by speech, writing, or signs". Communication can be perceived as a two-way process in which there is an exchange and progression of thoughts, feelings or ideas towards a mutually accepted[clarification needed] goal or direction.
There are three major parts in human face to face communication which are body language, voice tonality, and words. According to the research:
55% of impact is determined by body language--postures, gestures, and eye contact,
38% by the tone of voice, and
7% by the content or the words used in the communication process.
VERBAL COMMUNICATION
Verbal communication requires the use of words, vocabulary, numbers and symbols and is organized in sentences using language.
Mastering linguistic skill is not reserved for the selected few. It is a skill that each and every one should develop for personal growth and to improve relationships and interactions.
Everyone's brain is forever having thoughts and they are primarily with words. Words spoken, listened to or written affect your life as well as others. They have the power to create emotions and move people to take action. When verbal communication is delivered accurately and clearly, you activate the mind and encourage creativity.How to improve your verbal communication ?
1.Using positive words to challenge limiting beliefs.
Verbal communication includes phrasing your words clearly and positively. Your words and the explanations you give affect thoughts and determine emotions.
2. Telling or narrating a story.
One of the ways to let others understand your message is by telling a story, reading a quote or telling a joke. Verbal communication through stories carries power to induce the person to relate to what you are saying or suggesting. A joke usually helps people relax more and is opened to listen to you.
3. Asking the right questions.
Questioning yourself or others with precise words allow for answers. It will make a difference if you were to ask a "why" or a "how" question. The former gives you a lot of reasons, understandings and explanations while the later set your brain thinking for a solution, useful information and a strategy.
4.Think and prepare before you speak.
Whether you are going to speak in public, talk to your boss, spouse or children, you. have to think before you utter those words. Verbal abuse happens when you express yourself without thinking and instead allow your emotions to take over
NON VERBAL COMMUNICATION
In the communication theory seven functions of the non-verbal communication are distinguished:
1. Repeating what has already been expressed verbally
(saying yes and nodding at the same time, giving directions and pointing)
2.Replacing the verbal communication
(nodding yes, shaking no, questioning facial expression, emblem gestures)
3.Opposing the verbal communication
(confirming something but shaking your head hesitantly or shrugging your shoulders)
4.Affectionate (instinctive) support of the spoken word
(concerned frown or encouraging pat on the back)
5.Information about the mutual relation
(smiling, eye contact, touching, distance, posture)
6.Emphasizing the verbal communication
(a wagging finger when you express an accusation, or reproaching someone with a loud voice and hitting the table angrily)
7.Structuring and regulating the verbal communication
(the dots and commas of the spoken sentences: hemming, looking at someone and looking away, pauses, and supporting hand gestures
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Confident Body Language
Everyone uses body language
People can not live without each other, we are social beings. As soon as we are in contact with others we are communicating. For this we can make use of spoken and written language. In these ways we make the content of a message clear to each other. However we can also communicate without words. This kind of communication tells us something about the relationship between people. Often this is more important than getting the content of the message across. The communication about this non spoken communication, which tells us something about the relationship between people, is called Meta-Communication. Communicating about communication!
The language everybody speaks.
The function of body language within our daily contacts
When we come in contact with other people, we always communicate. This can take place through using words, via our voice - spoken language - but also without, or alongside the use of words - non-spoken language or non-verbal communication. Posture and movements, our place in space, use of time and intonation when we speak are all part of this. Non-verbal communication is better known as body language. However it is more than just body language.
"Non-verbal communication and Lichaamscommunicatie are not the same thing. Lichaamscommunicatie is an important part of the non-verbal communication form though. Examples of non- verbal communication that are not examples of Lichaamscommunicatie could be a flag on a ship, a nurse's uniform or the Red Cross pin of a qualified nurse."
(F.R. Oomkes)
We always use body language.
We always use body language! Looking at someone for example means something completely different than not looking at someone. Even our very presence conveys a message. In our contact with other people it is impossible not to communicate. Several investigators estimate that at least 70% of the communication between people takes place through body language and tone of voice. The best known theory is that of the American psychologist Mehrabian. He states that when it comes to expressing feelings: 55% of the communication consists of body language, 38% is expressed through tone of voice and only, 7% is communicated through words. If this is the case we express 93% of our feelings in a non-verbal way!
Expressing feelings through body language
Body language is an easier way of expressing feelings than spoken language. For example you do not say to someone easily that you do not like him or her, but through body language you can show them clearly. So the (digital) spoken language is limited, which is why we need the (more analogue) body language so much in our communication. Almost all verbal communication is digital and practically all body language is analogue. Spoken language and body language go mostly hand in hand. When someone says something, information is conveyed through body language at the same time. This extra non-verbal information can support the content of the message or may contradict it.
It could be that we have already noticed so many times that body language gives more of a hold-on than words, which makes us automatically doubt the words when they do not correspond to the non-verbal signals.(F.R. Oomkes)
Communication control is important.
How you come across, is not only determined by the words you speak. Communication control is important, for example to leave a good impression behind after a job interview. Hereby attention for your own body language is also important. Body language often just leaves an unclear feeling behind with the receiver. For example: "I have the feeling that he likes me" or "I doubt his sincerity". It is not easy to express these feelings in words and the assumed meaning is not easy to prove.
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BUSCOM ASSIGNMENT
THE LANGUAGE EVERYBODY SPEAKS
Distance and space
'How we guard our personal space boundaries and how we enter into the others' personal space, is integrally connected with the way we are related with other people'.
It is important for people to have their ‘own space'. The position someone prefers and all the things he does to appropriate the space around him says something about that person.
Is a visitor at a birthday party sitting between other people or does he sit somewhere separate? With whom is he sitting together? And is his place situated in the middle of a group or on the periphery? How much space between himself and others does this person create? Is he facing the door, the window or does he sit towards other people in the room?
Another aspect of space is the way people fit op their home to make it a place of their own. If you watch someone's home on the inside, this tells you a lot about that person. How is the personal space divided? Are the rooms very full with material objects or empty? How much space (territory) do you think this person needs?
Distance during interaction
The mutual distances people choose during interactions have several goals. Distance plays a role in signaling the beginning and the end of a conversation. It also signals something about how intimate and how personal we experience the relationship and the topic of discussion. The appropriate use of distance between talking partners is regulated by quite a lot of (unwritten) social rules and cultural norms.
Closeness
The physical distance we keep from others and our reaction to how other people approach us, have a big influence on our discussions and the accompanying connections with these people. The amount of personal space we appreciate is strongly influenced by our culture. This also counts for the mutual distance in wich we feel confident during an business meeting.
If somebody comes closer to us than we are used to, invading our personal space, he can give us an uneasy feeling. We feel inclined to take a step backward to establish the original personal space with which we are comfortable again. In general, people need a certain amount of personal space to feel optimally o.k. This also indicates our wish to trace out our personal territory. When we are not at home we sometimes make a kind of temporary territory - a temporary space wich we secure with our personal belongings. In this way we create a kind of personal air bubble around us. Who enters in there without being invited can count on a rejecting or angry response.
Zones
Edward Hall, an American antropologist, has divided interpersonal space into four zones:
The intimate zone (0 - 45 cm)
The personal zone (45 - 120 cm)
The social zone (120 - 360 cm)
The public zone (360 - 750 cm or more)
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How to be a good communicator and how to make the most of your relationships:
* Be interested in other people - show that you are by asking questions (but don't be insincere or hypocritical - nice word). Not mundane comments about the weather. Say something interesting like: "How's the back yard?" Be tactful. Don't say, "has grannie 'popped off' yet?"
* Be punctual - this shows you are responsible, courteous and respectful of other's time.
* Enjoy other people's company and have FUN.
* Tell the good news (without being a "Bible-basher", please). Be positive and other people will enjoy your company.
* Be decisive - this shows confidence
* Like yourself and be positive about your life. Doing this will draw others towards you.
* Keep your sense of humour. Hope you've still got one after reading all this!
* Tell people what you like about them without embarassing them.
* Be realistic in your goals, plans and desires.
* Look at people, when you talk to them.
* Spend time alone with your partner/"significant other".. Go on walks together. If you are not in a close relationship, discuss what's happening in your life from time to time with a close friend. If like me, you don't have one, join "rent-a-friend".
* Give and take in your relationships.
* Smile often (not inanely).
* Respect people (for what they are).
* Recognise that right and wrong are never black and white. There are always three sides to any story: your side, the other person's...and the TRUTH.
* Try to put yourself in the other person's shoes (only if they fit you). I like walking a mile in another man's shoes. By the time he finds out, I'm a mile away and I've got his shoes!
* Watch, wait and listen when developing relationships.
* Be assertive, but cautious.
* Don't gossip, backbite and backstab. Treat others, as you'd LIKE to be treated yourself - with dignity and respect.
and most importantly,
* Be true to your values and beliefs. Personal integrity is crucial at ALL TIMES.
"If you have integrity, nothing else matters.
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TIPS INTERVIEW
1. PRESENTATION
Make your presentation, specially your clothes seen professional, adult, and mainstay.
Get dressed for male:
Using the light-yellow shirt , gray or blue shirt (don’t use the loud shirt). And don’t use the black shirt to avoid mourn situation. Don’t forget to use the tie must be matching with the shirt.
Get dressed for female:
Using the shirt or simple blouse , don’t use with the bright colour . And the important don’t use the make-up be over.
2. ON TIME
You must come minimum 20 minute before start the interview.
3. ARRANGE THE BODY LANGUAGE
When you into the interview room, you must walk steady. Handed your hand to interviewer with smile, observe intently, and handshake. And forget you don’t sit before invited, don’t entered your hand into pocket.
4. EYE CONTACT
Don’t shift eye contact when the interviewer give the question, make your gaze look confident and positive thinking.
Dian Puspita Dewi
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TIPS INTERVIEW
1. PRESENTATION
Make your presentation, specially your clothes seen professional, adult, and mainstay.
Get dressed for male:
Using the light-yellow shirt , gray or blue shirt (don’t use the loud shirt). And don’t use the black shirt to avoid mourn situation. Don’t forget to use the tie must be matching with the shirt.
Get dressed for female:
Using the shirt or simple blouse , don’t use with the bright colour . And the important don’t use the make-up be over.
2. ON TIME
You must come minimum 20 minute before start the interview.
3. ARRANGE THE BODY LANGUAGE
When you into the interview room, you must walk steady. Handed your hand to interviewer with smile, observe intently, and handshake. And forget you don’t sit before invited, don’t entered your hand into pocket.
4. EYE CONTACT
Don’t shift eye contact when the interviewer give the question, make your gaze look confident and positive thinking.
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How to make a good business even better
Successful small business owners know that ongoing improvements play a big role in business growth. Your competitors can be a key source for inspiration.
Managers of large corporations regularly and systematically look at the performance of other companies to determine how they compare and where they can improve. Your business may be smaller, but it can still benefit if you follow the lead of bigger companies. Whether the review you conduct is formal or informal, complex or simple, a benchmarking exercise can help reduce costs, improve performance, and infuse your business with new ideas.
While you're conducting your review, CIBC business advisors and their team of specialists can direct you to relevant data sources, and provide feedback to help you focus on the areas that are most important to your business.
Following are some suggestions to help you with your evaluation process.
1. Understanding your challenges
As with any undertaking, the first step is to understand your challenges. What area of the business do you want to evaluate? What key processes affect performance? Where do you suspect there might be room for improvement? Some of the most common areas for examination include cost control, inventory management, customer service, IT, and human resources.
2. Identifying your measures
Break down the general area for study by selecting one specific process at a time (such as order taking) rather than looking at an entire system (such as fulfilment), which comprises many processes. This will produce the most meaningful results and a greater likelihood of making real and lasting change in a reasonable time frame.
3. Collecting your information
What data will you need to gather to establish your baseline position in the chosen area?
Financial figures aren't the only ones worth examining. For example, if you are studying product delivery, you could look at shipment times, percentage of late shipments, and customer feedback, in addition to actual shipping costs.
If the area you want to study is intangible, try to determine measurable items that are related. To explore employee satisfaction, for instance, you might monitor employee turnover and absenteeism.
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4. Looking externally
Having established a baseline for your firm's past performance, it's time to look outward. How will you select the other companies?
In addition to comparing your business to your direct competitors, you might also find useful data from firms in other industries that operate in a geographic area similar to yours or that serve a similar demographic market.
There are several ways to collect the information you need. Quantitative data on standard business numbers such as revenue, cost of goods sold, and debt to equity ratio can be acquired from government and industry resources.
For more qualitative data, you might consider interviewing a company rep or using a survey. Many companies are willing to provide information.
5. Analyzing the data
The significant part of the analysis is uncovering major gaps between internal and external data. You can use these differences as a guideline to discover where there is room for improvement. Keep in mind, however, that every company is different, so some of the gaps may simply reflect a particular focus or priority of your company.
For example, your production and staffing costs might be twice those of your competitor; but if your unique selling proposition is to provide superior quality, those costs may well be warranted.
6. Finding the solution
Your findings will provide the foundation for improvements. Sometimes, they will hold the actual solution (as in changing suppliers to cut costs), while, in other cases, they will signal an area where further research or some creative brainstorming is required.
Always consider the big picture. For example, a faster ordering process may reduce costs, but it may also reduce your ability to develop relationships with your customers.
7. Implementing new processes
Here are some key principles to follow at the implementation stage:
Set clear and realistic targets
Consider other areas of your business that might be affected by the changes
Establish a time frame for achieving goals
Put the plan in writing
Communicate the plan to your staff
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GOOD COMMUNICATOR IN BUSINESS AND IN LIFE
GOOD COMMUNICATION
is the process of transferring signals/messages between a sender and a receiver through various methods (written words, nonverbal cues, spoken words).
Good Communication:
• listening skills
Listening is first because it is the most important component of good communication
•listening with full attention
Stop what you are doing, make eye contact, and don’t judge what is being said. Think about what you will say next; don’t jump in right away with advice or solutions
•Active listening
Have empathy; try to see things from the speaker’s point of view Employ enquiry; you invite, not demand, the speaker to tell you more about it.
•Self Expression Skills
Be Open - important things are not left unsaid and assumptions are not made
Be Discreet - use honesty with compassion; some things do not need to be pointed out
Be Direct - verbal and non-verbal messages are not in conflict; do not make hints Use “I” Statements - these non-judgmental statements are about how you feel and why.
Problem Solving:
1. Acceptance - look at the person objectively. Accept what is and go into solution mode
2. Letting go - if you have destructive patterns of relating due to early life training, remember that learned behavior can be unlearned 3. Expressing Feelings - let your feelings out in an appropriate manner
4. Taking Responsibility – take responsibility for yourself. Own your behavior; allow others to be responsible for them
5. Forgiving - you can’t move forward if you don’t forgive
6. Appreciating - appreciate people for what they are, not what you think they should be
Good VS. Bad Communication:
GOOD
You express your feelings openly and directly (You use “I feel” statements such as “I’m feeling annoyed”) You acknowledge the other person’s feelings (“You seem frustrated with me - are you?”)
BAD
You fail to express your feelings; Instead, you pout or attack with “you” statements (“You’re a jerk”) or you argue about the truth You fail to acknowledge the other person’s Feelings
Setting Boundaries:
1.Be aware of what your relationship boundaries are 2.Pay attention to your feelings 3.Anger, resentment, humiliation, and anxiety can be alarms to let you know that a boundary violation is occurring
4. Boundaries vary from person to person and from one situation to another
5.Make your boundaries clear to others 6.Do not assume that others know what your boundaries are
7.You have a responsibility to communicate your boundaries in a clear and respectful manner “I” Statements - give a non-judgmental description of the situation, how you feel about it, and now it is a problem for you
How to Make The Most of your relationship:
• Be interested in other people - show that you are by asking questions (but don't be insincere or hypocritical - nice word). yet?"
• Be punctual - this shows you are responsible, courteous and respectful of other's time.
• Tell the good news (without being a "Bible-basher", please). Be positive and other people will enjoy your company.
• Be decisive - this shows confidence
• Like yourself and be positive about your life. Doing this will draw others towards you.
• Keep your sense of humour. Hope you've still got one after reading all this!
• Spend time alone with your partner/"significant other".. Go on walks together. If you are not in a close relationship, discuss what's happening in your life from time to time with a close friend.
• Don't gossip, backbite and backstab. Treat others, as you'd LIKE to be treated yourself - with dignity and respect.
Parameita N.S
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THE ART OF COMMUNICATION
Communication is your door to financial wealth, loving relationships, and all that is good in life. Communication is the most talked about and least understood area of human behavior. Our ability to communicate in so many modes is unique to humans on earth. People who do not have the ability to speak can be wonderful communicators. The loss of one or two senses certainly can impair communication, but it does not have to stop communication. Effective communication is rarely taught and even more rarely learned in our society. What follows is an outline of a few of the many keys to mastering the art of communication. Superior communication skills are unquestionably vital to living a life by design.
BASIC COMPONENTS OF COMMUNICATION
Interpersonal communication includes at least the following elements:
1.A transmitter. Someone who wants to "send" a message verbally or non-verbally to someone else.
2.A receiver. Someone who will "receive" a message from another person.
3.A message. Information in some form.
4.Noise. Anything that interferes or causes the deletion, distortion or generalization of the exact replication of information being transmitted from the mind of the transmitter to the mind of the receiver.
5.Feedback. Both the sender and receiver constantly elicit verbal and nonverbal feedback to the other person.
6.Replication. The duplication of understanding in one person that is in the mind of another person. Replication is an approximate goal and philosophically not perfectly possible, though desired.
7.Understanding. An approximation of what the message means to the sender by the receiver.
Basic styles of communication:
1)Aggressive - Often people think that they are responding assertively when they are actually being aggressive. These personalities come on too strong and their energy bombards or pushes at people. Because of life experiences, they are full of hurt, anger, and resentment. They all too often lash out at others or overly defend issues. The aggressive response tends to evoke aggression in others and make the aggressive communicator even more out of control, which further alienates them from others. To be in control is a dominant need for them. Then they feel safe: if they control or push others away, then no one can hurt them.
2) Passive - Passive communicators tend to appear weak and self conscious. Deep down they feel insecure and may experience self doubt. They let themselves get pushed around and say "I'm sorry" for things they didn't do. They radiate a sense of wanting to speak up, but they don't, so there is a feeling around them of unspoken expectations and unmet needs. Being passive perpetuates the cycle of negative thinking toward oneself and one's self image, and self esteem drops even lower.
3) Passive Aggressive - They will say one thing to your face and another behind your back. This is the most insidious of the styles because it is harder to confront and subtler than the other two styles mentioned. They deny responsibility: "I was just joking." Trust is non-existent and these people feed on negativity and gossip. They act in this way to achieve a pseudo sense of control. They find if they can subtly defame another, they are somehow achieving a victory for themselves and they think then that they will look (or feel) better than another.
4) Assertive - The *gold star* of communicators. Their communications are compassionate in their delivery. It is the ability to relay a clear message without blaming, shaming, criticism, or insinuating. They are compassionate listeners. Compassionate listening requires a deep connection that goes beyond the person's words. An assertive communicator gives undivided attention.
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NON – VERBAL COMUNICATION
Non -Verbal Communication is the message or response not expressed or sent in words -hints , suggestions , indications.Actions speak louder than words.
“What you are speaks so loudly that I cannot hear what you say” -Ralph Waldo Emerson. There is a distinction between the meanings we ‘give’ in words and the meanings we ‘give –off ’ in NV signals.
TYPES OF NON-VERBAL MESSAGES
A. Body Language orKinesics
B. Clothing or Artifactual Communication
C. Voic orParalanguage
D. Space and Distance, or Proxemic factors
E. Color
F. Time, or Chronemics; and
G. Touch
Body Language is “The bodily gestures, postures, and facial expressions by which a person communicates nonverballywith others”.
KINESICS:
♦POSTURE
♦GESTURE
♦FACIAL EXPRESSIONS
♦GAZE / EYE CONTACT
Basic Types of Body Language postures :
1.OPEN / CLOSED
People with arms folded and legs crossed and bodies turned away are signaling that they are rejecting messages. People showing open hands, fully facing you and both feet planted on the ground are accepting them.
2.FORWARD/ BACK
When people are leaning forward and pointing towards you they are actively accepting or rejecting the message. When they are leaning back, looking up at the ceiling, doodling on a pad, cleaning their glasses they are either passively absorbing or ignoring it.
Tips to improve Non-Verbal Communication :
♦Positive NV behavior improvesyour non-verbal communication effectiveness.
♦You can improve your effectiveness as a non-verbal communicator by observing and analyzing both the physical environment of interactions and the body language, appearance, gestures, vocal cues, eye contact, and touching behaviorof the participants.
♦Inculcate positive Body Sport.
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Positive thinking is a mental attitude that admits into the mind thoughts, words and images that are conductive to growth, expansion and success. It is a mental attitude that expects good and favorable results. A positive mind anticipates happiness, joy, health and a successful outcome of every situation and action.
Positive thinking your key to success. Positive thinking brings inner peace, success, improved relationships, better health, happiness and satisfaction. It also helps the daily affairs of life move more smoothly, and makes life look bright and promising.
Positive thinking is contagious. People around you pick your mental moods and are affected accordingly. Think about happiness, good health and success, and you will cause people to like you and desire to help you, because they enjoy the vibrations that a positive mind emits.
Effective positive thinking that brings results is much more than just repeating a few positive words, or telling yourself that everything is going to be all right. It has to be your predominant mental attitude. It is not enough to think positively for a few moments, and then letting fears and lack of belief enter your mind. Some effort and inner work are necessary.
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Elements of a Winning Small Business Advertisement
Nobody can guarantee a winning ad. The only way to know for sure is to test it. But there are several elements that we can incorporate into our ad or sales letter to give it a better chance of being a winner.
1. Smart Ad Placement
The first step in positioning our ad for success is increasing its chance of being seen by our target market.
2. Focus on Your Objective
We must have a specific objective for our ad if you want people to act.
3. Irresistible Offer
The secret to constructing an irresistible offer is to add valuable bonuses and extend risk-free, easy-to-pay terms.
One last thought about our irresistible offer. Sometimes we can make our offer so irresistible that it appears to good to be true. Always tell the reason why we can make such a great offer. This will add credibility to an incredulous ad.
4. Unique Competitive Advantage
It is important to show our unique competitive advantage to attract consumer’s attention.
5. Advertorial Style
Cloaking our ad in a news style editorial format will not only pull more attention, but also instill credibility, which is one of the major roadblocks to consumer response.
6. Compelling Headline
The headline is the most important part of all the technical aspects of our ad. A powerful headline is either, (1) benefit driven, (2) news oriented, (3) curiosity driven, or (4) how-to oriented.
7. Sell the Benefits
Our prospects only care about how we, and what we offer, can benefit them. So leave out all of “me” copy and sell the benefits. Ultimately people only want two things, to (1) gain pleasure, or to (2) avoid pain.
Tell people how our offering will help them either gain pleasure or avoid pain by expressing them in the form of benefits. Don’t confuse this with listing the features of our product or service.
8. Make it Risk-Free
Make our ad credible and risk-free with using this combination:
1.Use testimonials
Testimonials from real people are powerful.
2.Offer a strong guarantee
Provide as strong a guaranteed as absolutely possible. If we can’t provide a strong guarantee for our product, perhaps we shouldn’t be selling it.
3.Include facts and statistics
Use facts and statistics from reliable sources to bolster your claims.
9. Call to Action
Get our prospect to take action immediately. Phrases such as, “call now”, “come in today”,etc.
10.Urgency
To compel our prospect to act immediately we must inject a feeling of “scarcity”.
11.Simple to Respond
Most people buy on impulse rather than logic. If our prospect finds it difficult to take advantage of our offer during their moment of impulse, we will lose the sale. Make it easy to do business with us.
12.Graphics
A good graphic can attract the attention of your prospect and draw them in to our message.
13.Accountability
For small businesses, they must hold their advertising dollars accountable to avoid wasting a lot of money.
Dian Puspita Dewi
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TIPS INTERVIEW
1. PRESENTATION
Make your presentation, specially your clothes seen professional, adult, and mainstay.
Get dressed for male:
Using the light-yellow shirt , gray or blue shirt (don’t use the loud shirt). And don’t use the black shirt to avoid mourn situation. Don’t forget to use the tie must be matching with the shirt.
Get dressed for female:
Using the shirt or simple blouse , don’t use with the bright colour . And the important don’t use the make-up be over.
2. ON TIME
You must come minimum 20 minute before start the interview.
3. ARRANGE THE BODY LANGUAGE
When you into the interview room, you must walk steady. Handed your hand to interviewer with smile, observe intently, and handshake. And forget you don’t sit before invided, don’t entered your hand into pocket.
4. EYE CONTACT
Don’t shift eye contact when the interviewer give the question, make your gaze look confident and positive thinking.
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MAJOR : INTERNATIONAL ACCOUNTING
Steps to Better Communications
How does one become a good communicator? First and foremost, it’s important to realize that no personality transplants are required. Here are a few tips:
1. Watch your word count. Generally speaking, the more words you use, the better the chance that you’ll confuse things. If you talk for half an hour, people might remember that you gave a speech, but if you speak for only five minutes, they’ll remember what you said. This is the secret to the Gettysburg address: make your points brief, simple and to the point, and put it in language the audience will relate to.
2. Write less, say more. As a corollary to #1 above, write with clarity and economy. As a rule, keep all memos to one page or less. If you feel that you need more space to wax eloquent, write a one-page summary and include the rest as an appendix. Chances are nobody will read past the first page anyway, so write accordingly.
3. Let your drawings and models do the talking. It’s true that a picture is worth a thousand words; use this to your advantage. Instead of explaining all the details, say “as you can see on the model (or in the plan)…” Your drawings and models will say far more in a glance than you can in an hour, and much more eloquently.
4. “Present in reverse.” Before starting any presentation, decide what you want the outcome to be, then design your talk backwards from that. Take as little time as necessary to get to your point. As you speak, trade places with the audience in your head—be sensitive to how they are responding. Are you getting good eye contact? Are they paying attention or are they listless? Do they understand what you are saying? Are they convinced? How do you know?
5. Avoid inconsistency and exaggeration. Don’t say one thing if the drawings or models say something else. Speak the facts plainly and let the audience draw its own conclusions; they’ll appreciate your confidence in their judgment. And while it’s OK to be dramatic to make a point, if you blow things out of proportion, nobody will believe the next sentence out of your mouth.
6. Watch the visuals. Your posture, your clothing, and your presentation material do make a difference. An eloquent speech can easily be derailed by visual distractions. Remember that presentation is a performance art—you are literally doing theater. Control what your audience sees as much as what it hears. Graphics are important. Pay attention to the design of your letterhead, brochures, drawing layouts, proposal formats, etc. Make sure they’re attractive and easy to read. Like the clothes you wear, they tell a story about you whether you like it or not.
ReplyDelete7. Go for closure. The two main purposes of a presentation are to share information or make decisions. You’ll never arrive at a conclusion unless the audience says “yes.” Make this easy on them by having all the relevant and required information at hand— “decision-ready information” —then don’t be afraid to ask for an answer. If the client can’t commit, find out why. Remember that the largest part of being a good communicator is being a good listener.
8. Know when to stop. Many a cake has been ruined by being left in the oven too long. If you plan to speak for five minutes, don’t take seven. Remember Thomas O’Neill’s famous dictum that “when you’ve got the votes, count the roll.” Your audience will appreciate your brevity and will reward you with their confidence (and their votes). “Over-communicating” can be just as dangerous as “under-communicating.”
Since the art of communicating clearly is so fundamentally important to the practice of good design, it’s extremely odd that this skill is foreign to most practitioners. To be successful, it’s essential to understand the client’s goals—what do they really care about and why? It’s also critical to make sure that all the design team members (including consultants and contractors) are on the same page, working in concert. Yet, for centuries architects have used an arcane symbolic language (construction documents) that is so complex and confusing that few practicing professionals, let alone clients, are fluent in it. No wonder there’s so much confusion in the office and on the construction site! Because sharing information is so critical to design, success will flow to those who know how to communicate well. When all is said and done, the only power the architect really has is the power of persuasion.
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Sirr, i'm sorry,i'm wrong to send my assignment about my persentation in your blog, i send my persentation in assignment 8. and then when i want to send again, i can't paste. so my assignment about my persentation there in your blog at assignment 8. thank you sirr.
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SEVEN PRINCIPLES OF GOOD COMMUNICATION
>INTRODUCTION
We live during a period of intense change -- that is obvious. Rather than listening to another lecture on the benefits of this change, however, managers want tips on how to lead during transition and how to make the step from being a manager to becoming a team leader.
>KEEP IT SIMPLE
Unfocused, run-on sentences filled with jargon and buzz words create confusion. Language is often an imprecise tool. The more often we repeat jargon the less clear the meaning becomes. Consider this example:
• Version #1: Our goal is to improve our victim assistance service delivery options so that they are perceptually better than any other service provider within the confines of the country.
Which version do you think people will better understand -- and respond to?
>USE METAPHORS AND ANALOGY
Metaphors, analogy, examples, or just plain colourful language helps communicate complex ideas simply and effectively. Here's a colourful vision statement from a large corporation that was facing fierce competition from a host of new, smaller companies: "We need to be less like an elephant and more like a customer-friendly Tyrannosaurus rex."
>USE MANY DIFFERENT FORUMS TO SPREAD THE WORD
Spread the word in big meetings, informal one-on-one or group talks and formal presentations. Encourage your employees to read national broadcasts, divisional newsletters, Fast Facts, Facts on Demand, Pony Express, The Gazette, The Quarterly. When the same message comes at people from six different directions, it's going to be heard.
>REPEAT KEY MESSAGES
For the message to be repeated as often as possible, plan ongoing communication opportunities including developing your key messages. Key messages are the ideas that you want your audiences (in your case, your employees) to take home with them. Key messages should become a natural part of meetings, discussions, etc.
>LEAD BY EXAMPLE
If you do the opposite of what you say, no one will listen to you. You have to "walk the talk".
>EXPLICITLY ADDRESS INCONSISTENCIES
If there's a legitimate reason for inconsistent behaviour, explain yourself. For example, in times of belt-tightening, if spending some money up-front can save more in the long-run, explain that openly and honestly to your employees, and listen with an open mind to their suggestions. If there isn't a legitimate reason for inconsistent behaviour, change the behaviour -- quickly. Some may believe that management shouldn't have to explain itself to its employees. Those managers shouldn't be surprised if their employees lose faith and interest.
>LISTEN AND BE LISTENED TO
A final rule: communication should be two-way. Explain the vision, then listen to the feedback
Communicating the vision effectively sets the stage for the next phase: getting people to act.
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IN ORDER THAT YOUR LIFE TO BE EASY
actually your life to be easy or hard dependent on "how we view that life"
if you think:
a life is hard, to put in peevish mood and full with tension, so your face will be look like ugly and nobody people happy or want to meet with you.
but..
if you think :
actually a life is beautiful, easy and full with comfortable, so your face will be look like beautiful or handsome and then many people want to meet with you and you will be have many friends in your relatinship.
how in order that our life to be easy?
1. smile up guys
smile is a simple habit in our life. people will be happy if to be faced with people full of smile.
2. to be a people who to spread love
love is unhurt that to be our life more important and more spirited.
3. positive thingking
sometimes is very hard for we. but we must can do it to make your life happy and easy.
4. to be a low profile of people who have confident
is a confident in low profile style, we can show our life according to skill we have.
5. neat, beautiful and elegant
there many problems will be to come from in confusion our life.
6. to be a good listener and to be a good reader
to a life more easy, we must need enough knowledge,so if you can to be a good listener and reader you can to be a easy in your life.
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If you want to be a good communicator you take the following into account :
A good communicator remembers people names, greet them in a friendly manner and speak to them with courtesy and respect.
A good communicator knows that what the communicates non-verbally can be more meaningful than the words he uses so he always send the suitable non verbal message that supports his word.
A good communicator focuses on the person with whom he is speaking. makes this person feel like the most important person in his universe.
A good communicator listen as much or more than he talks.
A good communicator is positive and polite.
A good communicator usually read great books to evelop his communication skills
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Tips to Effective & Active Listening Skills
Written by Susie Michelle Cortright
Listening makes our loved ones feel worthy, appreciated, interesting, and respected. Ordinary conversations emerge on a deeper level, as do our relationships. When we listen, we foster the skill in others by acting as a model for positive and effective communication.
In our love relationships, greater communication brings greater intimacy. Parents listening to their kids helps build their self-esteem. In the business world, listening saves time and money by preventing misunderstandings. And we always learn more when we listen than when we talk.
Listening skills fuel our social, emotional and professional success, and studies prove that listening is a skill we can learn.
The Technique. Active listening is really an extension of the Golden Rule. To know how to listen to someone else, think about how you would want to be listened to.
While the ideas are largely intuitive, it might take some practice to develop (or re-develop) the skills. Here’s what good listeners know — and you should, too:
1. Face the speaker. Sit up straight or lean forward slightly to show your attentiveness through body language.
2. Maintain eye contact, to the degree that you all remain comfortable.
3. Minimize external distractions. Turn off the TV. Put down your book or magazine, and ask the speaker and other listeners to do the same.
4. Respond appropriately to show that you understand. Murmur (”uh-huh” and “um-hmm”) and nod. Raise your eyebrows. Say words such as “Really,” “Interesting,” as well as more direct prompts: “What did you do then?” and “What did she say?”
5. Focus solely on what the speaker is saying. Try not to think about what you are going to say next. The conversation will follow a logical flow after the speaker makes her point.
6. Keep an open mind. Wait until the speaker is finished before deciding that you disagree. Try not to make assumptions about what the speaker is thinking.
Sources of Difficulty by the Speaker
1.Voice volume too low to be heard.
2.Making the message too complex, either by including too many unnecessary details or too many issues.
3.Getting lost, forgetting your point or the purpose of the interaction.
4.Body language or nonverbal elements contradicting or interfering with the verbal message, such as smiling when anger or hurt is being expressed.
5.Paying too much attention to how the other person is taking the message, or how the person might react.
6.Using a very unique code or unconventional method for delivering the message.
Sources of Difficulty by the Listener
1.Being preoccupied and not listening.
2.Being so interested in what you have to say that you listen mainly to find an opening to get the floor.
3.Formulating and listening to your own rebuttal to what the speaker is saying.
4.Listening to your own personal beliefs about what is being said.
5.Evaluating and making judgments about the speaker or the message.s
6.Not asking for clarification when you know that you do not understand
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PERSENTATION
my persentation about professional communication skill. how to make a good communication to relation.
TIPS
1. ABILITY
ability for your communication to make understand to relation, so not will miss understanding.
2. SKIILLS
have your skills, how to make your relation respect to your topic.
3. ADAPTABILITY
have to adaptability condition for the moment good communication in your topic.
4. UNDERSTANDING
you must understanding about topic. so your relation happy communication with you.
Leadership
ReplyDeleteHow is a leadership worthy in a teamwork?
Arranging the divisions.
Keeping to strive.
All those for achieving the goals/objectives.
What is leadership?
Managing every person in a team to accomplish goal by optimizing the each member’s function in professional way.
The Two Most Important Keys to Effective Leadership
Trust and confidence in top leadership was the single most reliable predictor of employee satisfaction in an organization.
Effective communication by leadership in three critical areas was the key to winning organizational trust and confidence
Helping employees understand the company's overall business strategy.
Helping employees understand how they contribute to achieving key business objectives.
Sharing information with employees on both how the company is doing and how an employee's own division is doing - relative to strategic business objectives.
Factors of Leadership
Follower
Different people require different styles of leadership.
Leader
You must have an honest understanding of who you are, what you know, and what you can do.
Communication
You lead through two-way communication.
Situation
All are different.
Leadership Models
Four Framework Approach
• Structural Framework
• Human Resource Framework
• Political Framework
• Symbolic Framework
Managerial Grid
Managerial Grid Model
The Blake and Mouton Managerial Grid (1985) uses two axes:
• "Concern for people" is plotted using the vertical axis
• "Concern for task" is along the horizontal axis.
They both have a range of 0 to 9.
The notion that just two dimensions can describe a managerial behavior has the attraction of simplicity.
Those two dimensions can be drawn as a graph or grid, at the end we come up with four types of leaders:
• Authoritarian (9 on task, 1 on people)
• Team Leader (9 on task, 9 on people)
• Country Club (1 on task, 9 on people)
• Impoverished (1 on task, 1 on people).
The Process of Great Leadership
Challenge the process
Inspire a shared vision
Enable others to act
Model the way
Encourage the heart
The End...
Thank you
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HOW TO ANALYZE FALSEHOOD FROM VERBAL EXPRESSION
In communication need expression verbal and non verbal. As subject communication, we can find seriously person with the way of their communicate, moving, etc. We must be careful with communication especially about business problems. For the example, Writer will presented about falsehood. Falsehood is Phenomena witch happen in society. When we interact in social life, we can be the target falsehood.
The this, of course we must take action. We can not continue to be victims of the lie. We need to know how to detect the lie to someone. This is useful not only for the sake of our own (not to be injured), but also so that the liar and fraudster and stop deceptive cured idea.
According to Professor Stan B. Walters, to find out the lie / fraud, there are 2 things that become the object of analysis, ie, from verbal communication and non-verbal. In terms of verbal, we can actually know the lie to someone's voice quality, clarity, and content talking. That posting is more easily digested and not too long, the discussion this time is just about the sound clarity. We will discuss the topic and content of the discussion quality of someone other times.
7 IDENTIFICATION ABOUT ANALYZE FALSEHOOD
1.DISFUNCTION TALK
People who cheat more often one of the people who speak honestly. This is because when a lie, someone was experiencing mental stress. Therefore, we should be more careful and hear them carefully.
2.STAMMER
to mention this as a sign of the lie, you need to know the changes mentally. If he always talk halt, we can not call this phenomenon as the lie.
3.RESPITE
Pause talk shows do not have someone respond to you. Pause is needed to develop a commentary. This we must consider. May rest in the grace that he is to insert Falsehood.
4.COMMON SOUNDS
Sounds such as "ah", "er", "um", and "uh" is the effort to extend the time to collect idea. The individuals who do not have verbal skills are usually more frequent. Intensity will growing when they lie.
5.Nervous Laughter
Nervous laughter indicates stress. This can also be used to gain time before the speech. Nervous laughter can be shown that the topic is being discussed is a critical issue for the summer or the speaker, and be a sign of evasion or even fraud.
6.SIGH
People sigh over time may be in depression, or feel self-pity. This also shows defeatism on the situation. This is remarkable. Do they give up because you just want to press or pressing your back.
7.IDENTIFICATION IDEA NOT CLEARLY
If you thought the road / flow think someone is not clear or not synchronized, so this is a sign that he is being deceptive. Example of mind that is not the way clear for example, omission of words, words that is lost, not complete sentences, repeated thoughts, improvements to the sentence, missing talk, and no idea. If you have found this sign, Strengths your analysis with other signs.
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When you realize the difference between good communication skills and the "Good for nothing communication skills", it will be easier for you to become a good communicator.
Communication is probably the one skill which made us distinct amongst the animals. Along with our ability to think, it has brought progress in the world. Since we are born with superb inbuilt tools for communication, we often think we are born with good communication skills too.
Wonder why? Just because we have been doing it all our life!
It is true that from childhood you have been given verbal and non verbal inexplicit instructions on how to behave and talk to people. In spite of this, how many of us interrupt while others speak? On the other hand, how many of us can confidently say we are good in handling interruption?
It’s tips Being A Good Communicator
Know your topic! The best thing you can do is to be completely prepared. Much of the fear is being afraid that you will make a mistake. Keep in mind that you know more about this topic than anyone else in class; after all, you’ve spent weeks researching it!
Practice your part out loud as hearing yourself talk will make you feel more confident as well as help you see any problem areas you might have in explaining the material.
Think about impression management. Dress professionally. Make sure your powerpoint slides are easy to read, don't contain too much material, and are free from typos.
Focus on getting through the first five minutes. Most people get comfortable after a while so just concentrate on starting out well. Don’t look at it as a thirty-minute speech. Look at it as a five-minute speech that continues...Tell a story, show a relevant cartoon, ask us questions, etc., to ease into the presentation.
Breathe! When people are afraid, they begin to breathe in short, fast breaths. Before you speak, or while you are being introduced, sit quietly and breathe slow, deep breaths.
Pick a couple people in different parts of the room to talk to. This makes you feel you are really just talking one on one. Everyone is more comfortable talking to a friend or a clerk in a store but tend to get nervous when it's a large group.
Get enthusiastic. If you're not excited about the topic, no one else will be. Show that you are enthusiastic about your material and really want to share this with the audience.
Use humor. Not everyone is good at telling jokes but everyone can tell an interesting story that happened to them or to a friend. Nothing breaks the ice quicker than humor. If you get them laughing early, you've got their attention. Pick something that is related to what you are presenting.
Don’t lecture to us. A way to engage us is to show us how the topic will be useful to our lives or careers. Ask questions. Use examples. Have visual aids. Make us want to pay attention.
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Hi sir, this is my presentation for last assignment:
Suggestions for Being a Good Speaker
1. Be active in letting people know you are available to speak. Once you have a date, encouage the group to publicize your program and tell people yourself. Inform local newspapers, radio and TV stations and include information about who you are aand when and what group you traveled with.
2. Become familiar with your own denomination's stand on these issues and bring a copy (or copies) of any resolutions passed recently. You might want to become familiar with Chruches for Middle East Peace (CMEP) materials since your denomination probably participates in the organization.
3. Don't make the program a tourist trip with slides showing monuments and sites. If you use slides, illustrate the issues and people.
4. Bring some handouts such as maps, time lines, recent Emails or website printouts. Put up a display. Bring a large map to post as well.
5. Use you own experience as the basis for your talk. Tell lots of stories and then relate them to points you want to make.
6. Focus on children, women, family etc., all of which helps humanize the Palestinians. If you talk about terror, personalize the many Palestinian civilians killed by Israeli guns and bombs. Give credibility to Palestinian leaders and other prominent Palestinians. Elections haven't been held recently because of the occupation.
7. Avoid generalizing and putting words into people's mouths such as "Palestinians say..." "Israelis say..." Tell about what a specific person said to you. There are many different opinions among both Israelis and Palestinians. Don't allow members of your audience to dehumanize either side.
8. Use the correct vocabulary. Arabs are not all Muslims. Occupied territories are not disputer territories; illegal settlements imply that some settlements are legal. None are legal, etc. Settlements are not the same as kibbutzim.
9. Allow plenty of time for questions. This is the most fruitful time of all.
10. If you don't know the answer to a question, tell the person you will find out and follow up on that promise.
11. If you receive an honorarium and don't need the money, donate it to a peace movement or other appropriate cause. Let the group who gave you the honorarium know how you used it. You might interest them in giving more to that cause.
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Hi sir,
How to be a Good Listener
Introduction
Communication is a two-way process because there needs to be someone in the ‘receiving’, listening role as well as someone in the ‘expressing’, speaking role. Both parts are equally important. If there is a problem with one half of the process, then there is likely to be a breakdown in communication.
Communicating with someone who uses AAC
Some people who are unable to speak use augmentative and alternative communication (AAC). AAC can allow the person to say what they want, when they want to. But talking with someone who uses AAC is different for the listener than talking with someone who is able to speak naturally.
The person using AAC is likely to be ‘speaking’ much more slowly than someone who is able to speak naturally. They may use a synthesized voice which might take the listener some time to tune-in to. Or they might not be 'speaking' in the traditional sense at all; for example, the listener might have to read what the person is pointing to on a chart or an electronic screen.
As communication is a two-way process, both people are responsible for making the conversation successful, but it is much more difficult if one of the people is communicating in ways which are unusual.
This page gives you some hints on how to become a better listener. Some of these hints are useful in any conversation, not just with someone using AAC. Becoming a better listener is what it is all about, and that is a skill we can all do with practising!
Appearances can be deceiving
• We can all be slightly anxious when we meet someone who is a bit different. Sometimes these anxieties can become barriers because we don’t see the person, just their differences such as their wheelchair or communication aid. Try not to let these anxieties hinder communication if you are talking with someone who uses AAC. Try to relax and enjoy your conversation!
• Do not assume that just because a person is using an AAC system they will not be able to say very much – you might be in for a surprise!
Take your time
• Using an AAC system to speak takes longer than being able to speak naturally. Difficult as it can be, we just need to wait for the person using AAC to finish speaking.
• Do not feel that you have to fill every gap in the conversation by saying something. It may be that the person using AAC is preparing the next thing they want to say to you.
Communication is more than just words:
Use your eyes as well as your ears!
• Communication is easier when you have eye contact with the person you are talking to.
• Do not just listen to the person using AAC; look out for all their other methods of communication such as facial expressions, vocalizations and gestures. These will often give you a clue to what the person is meaning if their message is a bit unclear.
Taking turns
• Because it is usually slower for the person using AAC to speak and because their ‘speech’ will be different to natural speech, it can be difficult for them to interrupt a conversation. You need to use your eyes as well as your ears, and look out for signs that the person using AAC has something they want to say.
• Don’t assume you know what someone using AAC wants to say. Try to wait and let the person start up the topic of conversation, allowing them to share the control of the conversation so that they are not always just responding to you.
How you ask a question can be important
• When you are asking questions, try not to ask more than one question at a time – give the person using AAC time to respond before you ask the next question.
• Try to ask open questions like “What did you do last night?”, rather than closed questions to which the person can only say “yes” or “no”, for example, “Did you watch TV last night?”
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Sir this is my papper assignment..
How to Send SMS that is true, good, polite And Avoiding Deception Message via Mobile Phone.
SMS is one way to communicate via mobile phone by nearly everyone. With SMS, we can reveal message in various manner and forms, with a relatively cheap price. Tips to send text messages that are true, good, polite, and avoiding deception messages via Mobile Phone:
1. Use the words precise.
Typing message is not fun for some people. Therefore, use appropriate words and use sentences that are not too long so that the message would easily understand by the receiver. A good message is concise, clear, and understandable.
2. Do not use abbreviations word that is difficult to understand.
Sometimes to abbreviate the number of characters SMS, we abbreviate the words shortly. Abbreviation is too short can cause the receiver become confused, annoyed, and can lead misunderstanding.
3. Use words politely even when angry or emotional.
Do not use dirty words and abuse to others that are not familiar with it. Sometimes our friends can tolerate it, but not the same with the new people or not familiar properly. They can prosecute you to the court. Typing SMS with capital reflect hard expression. Use small letters only to avoid the wrong perception.
4. Avoiding deception and a chain messages.
If you receive an SMS contain of statement that you have won a prize do not get happy, because it can be a deceit to drain your money. Find out the author and contact the official costumer service phone number that is not from the SMS that you receive. Another case with a chain SMS that contains a call or SMS to pursue your friends with enticement of getting bonus credits, bonus SMS, money, gifts, etc. If you receive an SMS like that delete and do not tell anyone.
5. A complete identity.
When you send SMS to other people for the first time, you should include your name at the beginning or end of the SMS. In addition, you should not use the facility to hide your number on the SMS to make it easier to identify the sender of the recipient.
6. Do not send SMS to foreigner.
Others who receive SMS from foreigner usually not give a response. Likewise for you, family, children, friends, and others who receive SMS like that should not pay attention; because it means that the sender has a bad purpose that can lead to criminal acts.
7. Be patient to receive a reply SMS
Sometimes errors occur, such as technical limit dead, SMS server is full, peak hour, and others that delayed your SMS both in the sending, receiving, and the reply SMS. On the other hand if you expect a reply from the receiver, just be patient. It can be the receiver are not located near the mobile phone, credit is being exhausted, in a grace period, broken mobile phone, etc.
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How to Be Yourself
Being yourself is celebrating you, as an individual - learning to express yourself and be happy with who you are.
Steps
1. Find yourself. You can't be yourself if you don't know, understand, and accept yourself first. It should be your primary goal to find this out. Try to take time to yourself and contemplate your life and choices. Try to think about what kind of things you would or wouldn't like to do, and act accordingly; finding out through trial and error helps more than you might think it does.
2. Stop caring about how people perceive you. The fact is, it really doesn't matter. It's impossible to be yourself when you're caught up in wondering "Do they think I'm funny? Does she think I'm fat? Do they think I'm stupid?" To be yourself, you've got to let go of these concerns and just let your behavior flow, with only your consideration of others as a filter — not their consideration of you. Besides, if you change yourself for one person or group, another person or group may not like you, and you could go around in a vicious cycle trying to please people; it's totally pointless in the end
3. Be honest and open. What have you got to hide? We're all imperfect, growing, learning human beings. If you feel ashamed or insecure about any aspect of yourself — and you feel that you have to hide those parts of you, whether physically or emotionally — then you have to come to terms with that and learn to convert your so-called flaws into individualistic quirks. Be honest with yourself, but don't beat yourself up; apply this philosophy to others, as well. There is a difference between being critical and being honest; learn to watch the way you say things to yourself and others when being honest.
4. Relax. Stop worrying about the worst that could happen, especially in social situations. So what if you fall flat on your face? Or get spinach stuck in your teeth? Learn to laugh at yourself both when it happens and afterwards. Turn it into a funny story that you can share with others. It lets them know that you're not perfect and makes you feel more at ease, too. It's also an attractive quality for someone to be able to laugh at themselves and not take themselves too seriously!
5. Develop and express your individuality. Whether it's your sense of style, or even your manner of speaking, if your preferred way of doing something strays from the mainstream, then be proud of it... unless it's destructive to yourself or others. Be a character, not a type.
6. Have a productive day. Accept that some days you're the pigeon, and that some days, you're the statue. People might raise eyebrows and even make fun, but as long as you can shrug and say "Hey, that's just me" and leave it at that, people will ultimately respect you for it, and you'll respect yourself.
7. Believe in who you are. If you're always working to be someone you're not, you'll never be a happy person. Be yourself and show the world you're proud of the way you are! Nobody knows you better than you and that's how it should be. You deserve to be your own best friend, so start trying to figure out how you can do that. If you had to hang out with yourself for a day, what is the most fun type of person you could be, while still being yourself? What is the best version of you? Believe in this idea and use that as your starting point.
8. Follow your own style. The common thing a lot of people do is copy other's actions because it seems like the better route to fit in, but really, shouldn't you stand out? Standing out yes, is very hard, but you need to try avoid assuming other people's perspectives of you. Maybe you like to sit outside on the deck under a umbrella in the middle of the rain, maybe you have different ideas of things, rather than other people, maybe you like strawberry cake instead of the common chocolate cake, whatever you are, accept it. Being different is absolutely beautiful and it attracts people to you.